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My self-summary
To all those commitment-phobic men:
Begone from this profile!
If you cannot wrap your head around being with just one woman at a time forget this!

And now:
I am a twentynine year old creativity/music/sun-loving woman, living and staying in Bonn. I have got (almost) everything I need right here. My friends, my cat, a new garden, a stereo to listen to my music, a computer to binge watch series, very comfy couch and a tall enough blanket, clubs to rock in, my bike to do some trips with, there is still someone missing though ;). I like to be crafty, repair things, paint, make my own jewellery, sewing and sawing as well. When I am not trying to be interesting I work as a psychotherapist in training. I have worked through (most of) my own stuff but there is still things I have to learn in order to be a better example for my patients. I would like this world to be a better place, but since I am too lazy to devote all my time into such a big task I try to do it in little ways, which is better than nothing I guess.

Please be aware that I will want to take my time to get to know you before I commit to anything.

Some necessary information:
I am not going to answer people who live too far away, are shorter than me, are not my type from what I see in your profile, have obviously not even read my profile or try to pressure me into answering. I do not want to waste your time or mine. If you want an answer from me and don't get one in several days - that is my answer ;)

Do’s and Don’ts:
Be respectful, be open about how you feel, be decisive, be honest, no games (just the fun ones), don’t have a cat allergy, be tall ( sorry, but AT LEAST 1,80m, or let's say if the attraction is right I can do with "as tall as I am".)
I hate long distance relationships, so if you do not live near bonn or cologne you can already stop reading.
Your relationship should be a priority in your life and at least be as (or better even more) important than your career.
I want to share my life when I am in a relationship, not just meet up from time to time.
You should have some degree of introspection, so that you know what is going on in your heart and head. If you are closed up, indecisive or ignorant about your own feelings we will not work.

Ideally you and me take each other along on spontaneous or planned adventures and inspire one another to be active, creative and the most authentic version of oureselves. And if it fits perfectly we also like exactly that version of the other person and ourselves that we become when we are together.

I explicitly have to say that I do not aspire at all to function as a full time therapist for the person I am in a relationship with. That does not work in the long run. I would only refer you to another colleague ;)

I love weird music. It is absolutely ok if you do not know any of the bands I like (yet) but you should have a music taste that is compatible with mine (or has intersections of some kind) because I like to party to that kind of music as well as go to concerts. I can do that alone, but together it is more fun.

With me it is all a bit on the dark side… humor, music, art, films, Monday morning mood.
What I’m doing with my life
Trying to be content with what I have. Helping people I care about to make their lives (and mine) better.
I’m really good at
creative stuff. I am not very good in a special field but I am doing a lot of different things. Sewing, painting, carpenting, all kinds of tinkering, writing pseudopoetry (it does not rhyme most of the time), photographing, gardening, and decorating. If I have the chance I like to build or repair most things on my own. I also think I am a good listener in terms of : People tend to open up more to me than to others during intense talks.
The first things people usually notice about me
I am tall (1,76m)
blue eyes but brown hair
apparently I can be categorized as nerdy (heard that several times now)
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Books: The lord of the rings, the dark tower, a song of ice and fire, the name of the wind, hannibal lecter novels, the expanse

Kick-ass, sin city, Moon, 300, pan's labyrinth, requiem for a dream, scott pilgrim vs. the world, 7 psychopaths, black swan, leon the professional, the truman show, downloading nancy, lord of war, never let me go, eternal sunshine of the spotless mind, Fight club, perfume, sucker punch, le fabuleux destin d'Amélie Poulain, helden des polarkreises,sightseers, Hanna, Stoker, american beauty, filth, the way way back, only lovers left alive, Tale of Tales

TV-Shows: ( I am a serious series junkie :) this is only a selection of my favourites)
Dexter, Doctor Who, Scrubs, Boston legal, Suits, Weeds, modern family, futurama, Game of thrones, carnivale, skins, firefly, the following, Angels in America, Last week tonight, Jessica Jones, six feet under, Transparent, Rectify, The Expanse, ... and many more,

postrock, noise, industrial, goa, trip hop, progressive metal, new metal, electronic music, rock, Indi, sometimes pop

Monophona, race to space, Korn, Tool, Archive, Rammstein, Younger Brother, Sonic Area, The Editors, florence and the machine, Arcade fire, radiohead, Björk, fever ray, Gorrillaz, VAST, Muse, Placebo, Marilyn Manson, I was waiting for you last summer, Interpol

Sushi, Lasagna, Pizza, Potatoes in almost every form, green thai curry, CHEESE, single malt whisky, good carrebean rum, red wine
Six things I could never do without
tv shows, plants, music, internet, books, my 2x2m blanket, friendship
I spend a lot of time thinking about
How I can become like I want to be.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
Why should I?
You should message me if
... you want to get to know me. If I meet you I do not want to be impressed or entertained. I just want you to be you and let me see for myself if I like you the way you really are
The two of us