26Stamford, United States
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My self-summary
I LOVE to travel! I love being outside whether that's on a boat, at the beach, in my garden, or walking through the woods (I grew up on the shoreline so if I go without seeing the ocean for too long, I go stir-crazy). I love to try new things, and I'm always willing to explore new activities, ideas and characters.
What I’m doing with my life
I love my job! I am an architect and I work 9 to 5 normally. I try to hit the gym every day after work so I'm pretty busy during the week.

I want someone who works hard, but plays hard too. I'm very driven and I bust my butt to do well with my work, but I am also very playful and silly. I want a man who can appreciate and match my work ethic as well as my inner child.
I’m really good at
fine arts, design, writing, listening, problem solving...
The first things people usually notice about me
To be honest, most people notice my chest first... My eyes are usually the second thing. They are mostly brown, but when the light hits them you can see flecks of green, and when I genuinely smile you can see it in my eyes...
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
I love to read! Anything from sci-fi and fantasy, to historical fiction and romance, to memoirs and classics. Some of my favorites are the Life of Pi, Silas Marner, Running with Scissors and Mad House. And of course, I adore the Fifty Shades Trilogy!

I like all different kinds of movies. I watch chick flicks with my girl friends, action and war movies with my guy friends, and I love comedies.

My favorite TV shows at the moment are Criminal Minds, Law & Order: SVU, NCIS, the Big Bang Theory, and How I Met Your Mother. I am also slightly embarrassed to admit I love The Notebook, Twilight, The Vampire Diaries, and Grey's Anatomy, but I promise I'll never force you to watch them with me, hehehee.

For music, I listen to a little bit of everything so chances are I'll enjoy something on your playlist.

I don't like eggs for breakfast, butter on my toast, or cheese on anything except pizza. But I like most other things and I'm always willing to try something new. Seafood is probably my favorite food group, and Italian my favorite cooking style. I'm been pretty strict with my diet because my health is very important to me, but I promise not to order a salad on date night :P
Six things I could never do without
1. Faith
2. My family
3. My hands. I love to draw and design and I would flounder without my hands...
4. My pet
5. My photos
6. My journal
I spend a lot of time thinking about
all the ways the world is cruel and unfair and ugly, and all the things I would love to do to make it humane and just and beautiful. I know I cannot save the world, but if I can bring loveliness to a few people, I could die happy, knowing that I brought a little sunshine to a bleak world.
On a typical Friday night I am
On good Friday nights, I'm usually watching a movie with my friends, or grabbing a beer or a glass of wine somewhere.... Or lately I'm at the gym after work and am too tired to go out after... Saturday nights are when I usually go out
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I love whipped cream to a disgusting degree. Whether its homemade and fresh, or from the store, I do not care. I'll eat it by the spoonful or straight from the can. If you cannot appreciate this, we have no future together, lol...
You should message me if
I am a very straight forward and honest person and I'm looking for a guy who actually knows how to communicate. I love marathon-txting, sleepy late-night phone calls and curling up with a guy for the serious talks. Trust is incredibly important to me, so even the little white lies are unacceptable. And I don't do games, so if you want to play, please don't bother me...
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