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My self-summary
***DISCLAIMER** It's just barely after the holidays, I'm still very busy. I'll get back to evreyone when I can, but I can't promise much during this time. Also, I made some updates**

I'm less likely to talk to you if you don't have a profile image, or if you only send me messages having to do with silly sexual requests. I'm here for friends primarily, and my relationships usually happen through a friendship first.

I'm pansexual and genderqueer, but I'm not tumblr status crazy. I won't bite your head off over.. practically anything.

I like to think of myself as a giving and loving person. I place a lot of focus on making others happy, or taking care of animals. I would love a cat ranch where people could come and pet kittens that have lost homes and all could be loved for just a moment.
AKA I'm sappy, and probably a hippy in nature.

I live in a poly relationship with a husband and one girlfriend, so I'm really not 'looking' for relationships. We have a pretty big family as it is. I'm here for friendship, but what happens happens if I stumble into it. Our girl is out of town, but I live with my husband. We are the greatest of friends, and we rarely leave each others side. So expect that you'll be meeting him. Also I can't drive, so you should really just bet on it.

Here's my husbands profile for those interested:

I'm pretty much an introvert, I don't leave the house often and sometimes it is really hard to be talkative. I enjoy talking a lot to people I get to know, and I am friendly, but sometimes I just need time to recharge and be alone with some video games.

I spend my free time playing videos games, listening to music/singing to myself, drawing, and sometimes watching stuff. Interests listed below if you'd like to browse through, and since I am updating my profile expect more to probably be added (since I made this profile a decently long while ago and have gained more interests now.)

I think I can genuinely get along with anyone, so long as they do not hinder the lives of others to an extreme. Let people live; bitching about it is fine, but forcing others to live in misery just for yourself to feel peace of mind is probably the only thing that would seriously make me not want to talk or associate with you. Even then I am not confrontational, I don't like fighting with no real purpose.

There may be more added here in the future as I have time to update further.
What I’m doing with my life
I've recently attained an Associates Degree in Psychology, now heading to TTU to change my major in hopes that I can become an art therapist. It's not the best outlook in monetary terms, but i want to do what I love and unfortunately med school would just be far too scary in terms of debt for me at this stage in life.
I’m really good at
Collecting cats.
Cooking everything and eating nothing.
Forgetting what I was just going to draw.
The first things people usually notice about me
Out and about: My hair.
On the internet: Awkward at conversation, and seriously clueless to flirting.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
I'm adding this because it's a huge interest of mine. I love RPG's the most, and the older the better, but I like some newer games. Small(ish) list of some of my favourite games:
Shadow Hearts, Bioshock, FFXIV:ARR, Chrono Cross, Chrono Trigger, Earthbound, Pokemon, the Fallout series, Odin Sphere, Shadow of the Colossus, Okami, Heavy Rain, the Silent Hill series, Resident Evil (mostly one and four, I really need to catch up playing all the way through the others), Dead Space series, Disgaea, Tales of Phantasia, Yume Nikki, Final Fantasy, Breath of Fire series, Legend of Dragoon, Don't Starve, Elder Scrolls: Oblivion, Animal Crossing, I better stop. I could go for days.
Here's my UnikGamer if you want to see what I've played, it's not finished but it has some of it all up there:
Screw it, here's my Steam too.

Stranger in a Strange Land, Magic Kingdom for Sale: SOLD, Drizzt Series, Lord of the Rings, Wicked, Neuromancer, American Gods, Rhapsody, Walden, Chariots of the Gods?, Harry Potter, Ocean at the End of the Lane
I also enjoy manga, here's a list of what I've read:

Watchmen, Aliens, Food Inc., Jurassic Park, Star Wars, What the Bleep, Pan's Labyrinth, Predator, Repo! The Genetic Opera, Lord of the Rings, nearly anything by Miyazaki, Close Encounters of the Third Kind, Fire in the Sky, District 9, The Meaning of Life, The Thing, Fearless, Mary and Max, Mystery Science Theater 3000: The Movie, Airplane!, The Fountain, Fear and Loathing in Las Vegas, The Fifth Element, Silence of the Lambs, The Abyss, Hook, The Last Unicorn, Amelie, Blade Runner, Legend, Marvel movies, Labyrinth, Dark Crystal, Pacific Rim, Hellboy, Sucker Punch, REC, and I'll stop there before I make myself run out of room. All sci-fi and most horror I can love. I'm not one for typical Comedies or Romance.

Good Eats, MLP:FiM, Ancient Aliens, Cold Case Files, Iron Chef, 90's Cartoons, Robot Chicken, Adventure Time, The Tick, Bizarre Foods, Mystery Science Theater 3000, Parks and Rec, Cutthroat Kitchen, The Amazing World of Gumball, Metalocalypse, anything I can get my hands on that's an educational show or an eye-opener. After that I mostly watch anime (Seinen in particular.) I don't really watch TV anymore, but I do like these shows.
Here's my anime list if you are curious:

I love all music. I can't pick favourites, but I do more often listen to the more electronic music (Especially fast, hard, or melodic types, Vocal MeloDub is probably my favourite to chill with at the moment.). A sample of random artists I listen to is something I can do though.
Stabbing Westward, Incubus, Assemblage 23, Depeche Mode, VNV Nation, Purity Ring, The Knife, Mumford and Sons, Of Monsters and Men, Cloud Cult, The Fray, Niki and the Dove, Florence and the Machine, Sia, The Knife, Nero, Feint, Pendulum, Nine Inch Nails, Marilyn Manson, E-nomine, Blutengel, Redalice, T+pazolite, EastNewSound, Zytokine, Anamanaguchi, DJ Sharpnel, Enigmatic Lia, Gackt, Ayumi Hamasaki, Lee Jung Hyun, Bjork, Seven Lions, Above and Beyond, Origa, Enya, Loreena McKennit, Fleetwood Mac, Queen, David Bowie, Bruce Springsteen, Bon Jovi, Amon Amarth, Iced Earth, Borknagar,God Module, Cradle of Filth, Avenged Sevenfold, Dragonforce, Tristam, Varien, Grabbitz, Monstercat artists .... Seriously, I don't even know where to stop.
Oh yeah, did I mention I'm a huge nerd? Because I listen to a ton of video game remixes and video game OST's too.
If you know T+Pazolite or Sharpnel, I would probably squeek and do something else embarrassingly ditzy and feminine.
I made a account, it's still new so I'm always updating it but if you are interested you can see some of what I listen to there:

I love asian food. All of it. Japanese, Vietnamese, Thai, everything. I also love mushrooms. And squid.
I also prefer healthy eating. I'm not vegetarian, but I prefer a lot of foods that are high on veggie factor to eat, so I'm usually vegetarian friendly. I also think vegan food tastes pretty damn good if made well.
Six things I could never do without
Art supplies
On a typical Friday night I am
Cooking and playing games.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I have a copy of Kinectimals, and I'm very upset I don't have a Kinect to play it with anymore. I got a Kinect, and I still enjoy playing the hell out of this game.
You should message me if
You find anything about me interesting, if you're bored, whatever may compel you :3

Don't be discouraged by my questions if you come across the dreaded red colour in your answers- unless you kill cats for fun, I can probably get along with you fine, and I also respect others opinions. It just means that I'm likely to tell you I disagree if the subject comes up.
Also, the questions are all worded terribly. They can be taken in so many different ways it's ridiculous. I just answer them for fun and to give lurkers something to do.

I'm beginning to think I may need a small list of unpopular opinions up here, because I will get along with nearly everyone but I do have some ideas that sometimes piss others off. I don't like wasting anyone's time if they won't get along with me :x
*update* list commencing!
-I am generally more geared towards anti-feminist (third wave). I believe in womens rights, obviously, and the older movements, but this super PC culture crap pisses me off. I don't like judging people, I'm not ok with bashing people, I am willing to be friends with feminists and I respect diversity. It is just a topic that may become heated, because I will not waver in my opinion of this and other SJW topics.
-I am seriously into destroying censorship around me. There are ways to tell truths in kindness and not being rude about it, and people should be allowed to express themselves and their perspectives.
The two of us