28 Bel Air, United States
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My self-summary
At my best, I'm funny, charming, handsome, sophisticated, and friendly.

At my worse, I'm depressed, withdrawn, anxious
What I’m doing with my life
Hmmm...taking it easy as I recover from an inflamed heart and pericardium that had caused me to be hospitalized. Apparently I'm not supposed to work even though it was two weeks not going crazy from that. No I'm DEFINITELY not going crazy from that!
I’m really good at
Writing, fighting, and not giving up. I can also draw, act, and mix a good cocktail.

Not trying to brag, but I'm also good at cooking. I mean I'm not a world class chef or anything but I can make some pretty delicious scrambled eggs. Again not trying to brag...

...okay maybe I'm bragging a little. It's a dating profile, I'm supposed to sell myself a little.
The first things people usually notice about me
Physically: My curly red hair.

Personality Wise: A lot of people say I'm smart, friendly, but quiet. I'd have to agree with the quiet part, but I have no clue where they get smart and friendly from.

Also that I'm a lot more outgoing when I'm-...I don't want to say "drunk", because I don't drink that often and I usually limit myself to two glasses when I do. So how about "less sober"? Yeah, that works.

Although, I guess that technically isn't something people have first noticed about me. However, it would be for people who first meet while I am less sober.

Look I guess it's safe to say that I'm just...different from most people. That's made it hard to connect with others but I have to try.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
You know those guys who like Doctor Who, the works of Joss Whedon, graphic novels, anime, and the like? Yeah I'm basically one of those guys.

For music, I really like jazz, indie rock, classical, and epic soundtracks.

Currently Watching: Netflix...all of the Netflix

Currently Reading: Not enough

Currently Playing: Pathfinder

As for favorite food, I like spicy tasting dishes. I'm not big on sweets outside of desert. There are exceptions though, like sesame chicken.

Recently learned that I love indian food. I mean I knew that before but my brother introduced me to lamb vindaloo so yeah.
The six things I could never do without
My dogs that follow me around like ducklings.
My family that has always supported me and my brother even after separating.
Free will, even if it technically does not exist according to causal determinism.
The good fight.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
A lot of things. Okay, to be more specific, I spend a lot of time thinking about writing, the future, human rights, free will, philosophy, scientific endeavors, and what I want to have for dinner.

Even mores specifically: How Kant's 'kingdom of ends' makes him a hypocrite. How Aristotle's obsession with making lists and categories affected the practices of the European colonists in Rwanda, who twisted the previously harmonious Tutsis and Hutus from a farming tribe and ranching tribe into racial hierarchy puppet government that eventually led to a genocidal tipping point.

How the progress of the Feminist movement has led to a growing awareness amongst men of the ways in which antiquated concepts of masculinity has dictated their own repressed albeit privileged roles; leading some of them to join atavistic ideologies such as MRAs; when they should instead focus on a complimentary movement to reassess notions of masculinity and deconstruct toxic male stereotypes within the modern zeitgeist.

I think a lot about the stories I want to write or am writing. Stories like the one I'm currently working on. Also how I want to incorporate Shakespeare's rhetorical devices into my writing.

So yeah, something deep and meaningful like that or sex.
On a typical Friday night I am
Discovering what the world has to offer me...or just whiling away on the internet. The two aren't mutually exclusive, you know.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I know for a fact that termites taste like minty was during a trip to Belize.

The screen name is the first syllables from from my first, middle, and last names respectively.
You should message me if
I like to cook.