I've been on and off OKC for awhile now. I am changing this profile, because I have changed, as goes life.
What I would like to build towards is a lasting partnership, where we are home for each other. My life's goals are focused on growth and service. I am always seeking to learn more about how to live with greater authenticity, connection and care. To have a lasting partnership, I seek that vision in others. Growth and compassion are at the forefront of my life.
I study Buddhist meditation. I’m also a biker. Any day of the week, you can find me in the gym, at a mediation class, receiving acupuncture, spending time loving my friends and family, in the kitchen developing recipes for my catering business, attending art openings and riding my Harley with my all women’s motorcycle club (I go to the office, too!).
Another label: I identify bi-sexual, and I’m open to all types of relationships with all genders. In other words, I am attracted to people's energy, not just their body parts. I have experience in open, poly and also monogamous (was married 5 years!) relationships and seek to create the structure that fits my partners' and my needs and wishes.
My partners trend towards also being outside of the box in their approach to life. Happy, funny, creative, healthy, self-aware, emotionally mature, spiritual, compassionate, responsible, serious, achievement-oriented are words to describe those who I am attracted to.
Some important details for long term relationship success: emotional health and self-awareness are foundational. I am respectful and honest and kind and expect the same treatment in return. Compassion for self and others, please.
I have been married and divorced and am no longer interested in birthing children, as I am 42, but I do love kids. If you have kids, that's great with me.
I am also good at crafting. Cooking. Hosting events and parties. Building a fun and joyous life. Smiling. Laughing.
My life revolves around good food, cycling and biking and all types of art. So, if you want to eat well, travel on two wheels and experience or create art, I am your woman.