26Ithaca, United States
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My self-summary
I am a fun (I'd like to think), intense person, and I love people who can make me laugh. I like just hanging out and talking with my friends. Organized activities are not really my thing. I am hard working and dedicated to the people I care about.
Honesty and openness are things I value very highly in a partner, and it is something people should expect of me. I work hard to make sure I am honest about myself.
What I’m doing with my life
Working, mostly. I work at Target, setting new product. I'm in charge of putting out new releases of books, movies, music, and video games every week.
I’m really good at
I am good at my job, which might not be saying much, but it means a bit to me. I may not actually think I'm contributing to the betterment of society, but I can have the knowledge that I do a good job. That is really important to me.
I seem to be good at saying the right thing at the right time when someone is upset (although it depends on the person).
I try. Even if I fail a lot of the time, I do try, in most of my endeavors, to do the best I can.
The first things people usually notice about me
My hair.
My laugh.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Books: anything by Ann Patchett, A Tale of Two Cities by Charles Dickens, Harry Potter, Lord of the Rings, The Tortall series by Tamora Pierce, anything by Charlaine Harris, Galileo's Daughter by Dava Sobel, The Enchanted Forrest Chronicles by Patricia C. Wrede, The Dresden Files by Jim Butcher

Movies: Amelie, Shawshank Redemption, Juno, Inception, The Great Escape, Death at a Funeral, Garden State, Little Miss Sunshine, the Bourne Trilogy, the original Star Wars, LOTR, Take Me Home

Music: The Beatles, Guster, Vampire Weekend, Collective Soul, The Mountain Goats, Ingrid Michaelson, The Black Keys, The Weepies, Of Monsters and Men, Imagine Dragons, The Kinks, Stars, Weezer, Scissor Sisters, The Shins, They Might Be Giants, Flight of the Conchords, The Barenaked Ladies, Jukebox the Ghost, Walk the Moon

TV: Firefly, Dr. Who, Bones, Buffy the Vampire Slayer, Doll House, Psych, How I Met Your Mother, Scrubs, Flight of the Conchords, Castle, 30 Rock, The Daily Show, Arrested Development, Sherlock, Supernatural, White Collar, The Office, Angel, Parks and Recreation, The Big Bang Theory, Brooklyn Nine-nine, Archer, Bob's Burgers

Food: I like most kinds of food--I love Japanese, Thai, Indian, and Mexican food. I am really not picky.
Six things I could never do without
Cats, books, friends, music, chocolate mousse, family (not necessarily in that order, but not necessarily NOT in that order.)
I spend a lot of time thinking about
My relationships to the people around me.
My past.
My future.
My mistakes.
Books (how many I want to read, which ones I am reading currently, etc.)
I am constantly thinking--sometimes I wish I could stop for a little while, it's exhausting.
On a typical Friday night I am
Honestly, because of my weird work hours, if it's past 8pm, I'm probably sleeping. In my free time, I mostly read and watch TV shows on my computer, while arguing with my cat about what's best for her.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I am pretty open about anything with people, but I am not the best at thinking of things when put on the spot about them. But I often laugh so hard I start crying. Laughter is also often my response to stress or depression, both of which I struggle with.
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