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My self-summary
Hi! Welcome to my profile! First things first: I'm a gender fluid 30 something living in Seattle. I'm married to one lovely partner, and have another steady. We're all poly and have other relations as well. If that sounds like something you can handle, then please read on.

I'm a Druid, but I'm not a hippy. I don't smoke weed. I try not to randomly hug trees (but I do occasionally). I play lots of different role playing games. I like dancing and walks in the city at night ...
What I’m doing with my life
Working 50+ hours a week on crazy cool technology. I like to say i fight for the users, cuz I'm a user researcher. I enjoy role playing games, video games and other geeky activities. I play in a couple of LARPs already in town, including one that is a once a month camping game out in the woods (Dystopia Rising).

When I'm not working or crafting for larp stuff I like to go dancing. I'm quite fond of the Mercury. Goth industrial is my fave but I also enjoy neighbors or Q occasionally.
I’m really good at
Cards Against Humanity.
Seeing the wonder in everything.
The first things people usually notice about me
I have exceptionally blue eyes. I have a deep voice and soft skin and am almost always in a good mood when talking in person. Also, whether presenting male or female, I always try to be pretty.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
- Enders Game
- Dune
- Snowcrash

- Chronicles of Riddick
- Taken
- Star Wars

- Asian Food
I love to cook!! Let me make you dinner, you won't regret it.
The six things I could never do without
1. Order
2. Good Food
3. Good Drink
4. Good friends
5. My Phone (and so by extension, my friends)
6. Chaos
I spend a lot of time thinking about
I think a great deal about sociological issues: why people behave the way they do, why people hang out with who they hang out with, and how people adjust their behaviors to meet the expectations of those around them. I also think a lot about geeky things like Star Wars and Vampire games. When I'm out clubbing I think about pretty girls and good drinks. When I have my ropes handy I think about how best to tie you up in them :)
On a typical Friday night I am
Dancing. Or drinking. Going out with friends. Maybe dinner or a movie. I try to go out on Fridays as much as possible.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
Nothing is real. Everything is permitted.
You should message me if
I'm looking to make friends with the kinds of people who are supportive of my gender fluidity and perhaps even turned on by it. I spend my work days as a fairly pretty man and like to spend my evenings and weekends as a fairly pretty woman.

Someone to club with, dance with, and play video and role playing games with would be perfect. Also, it helps if you are poly and understand how that whole thing works.

You believe that it's possible to have a penis and also be a woman, and you're able to cope with a feminine male, without thinking its "sissy" or some other degrading bullshit.

You'd like to take me on an adventure.
If you're addicted to new person energy and want someone who will also be enthusiastically happy to see you.