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My self-summary
“Date a girl who reads. Date a girl who spends her money on books instead of clothes. She has problems with closet space because she has too many books. Date a girl who has a list of books she wants to read, who has had a library card since she was twelve.

Find a girl who reads. You’ll know that she does because she will always have an unread book in her bag. She’s the one lovingly looking over the shelves in the bookstore, the one who quietly cries out when she finds the book she wants. You see the weird chick sniffing the pages of an old book in a second hand book shop? That’s the reader. They can never resist smelling the pages, especially when they are yellow.

She’s the girl reading while waiting in that coffee shop down the street. If you take a peek at her mug, the non-dairy creamer is floating on top because she’s kind of engrossed already. Lost in a world of the author’s making. Sit down. She might give you a glare, as most girls who read do not like to be interrupted. Ask her if she likes the book.

Buy her another cup of coffee.

Let her know what you really think of Murakami. See if she got through the first chapter of Fellowship. Understand that if she says she understood James Joyce’s Ulysses she’s just saying that to sound intelligent. Ask her if she loves Alice or she would like to be Alice.

It’s easy to date a girl who reads. Give her books for her birthday, for Christmas and for anniversaries. Give her the gift of words, in poetry, in song. Give her Neruda, Pound, Sexton, Cummings. Let her know that you understand that words are love. Understand that she knows the difference between books and reality but by god, she’s going to try to make her life a little like her favorite book. It will never be your fault if she does.

She has to give it a shot somehow.

Lie to her. If she understands syntax, she will understand your need to lie. Behind words are other things: motivation, value, nuance, dialogue. It will not be the end of the world.

Fail her. Because a girl who reads knows that failure always leads up to the climax. Because girls who understand that all things will come to end. That you can always write a sequel. That you can begin again and again and still be the hero. That life is meant to have a villain or two.

Why be frightened of everything that you are not? Girls who read understand that people, like characters, develop. Except in the Twilight series.

If you find a girl who reads, keep her close. When you find her up at 2 AM clutching a book to her chest and weeping, make her a cup of tea and hold her. You may lose her for a couple of hours but she will always come back to you. She’ll talk as if the characters in the book are real, because for a while, they always are.

You will propose on a hot air balloon. Or during a rock concert. Or very casually next time she’s sick. Over Skype.

You will smile so hard you will wonder why your heart hasn’t burst and bled out all over your chest yet. You will write the story of your lives, have kids with strange names and even stranger tastes. She will introduce your children to the Cat in the Hat and Aslan, maybe in the same day. You will walk the winters of your old age together and she will recite Keats under her breath while you shake the snow off your boots.

Date a girl who reads because you deserve it. You deserve a girl who can give you the most colorful life imaginable. If you can only give her monotony, and stale hours and half-baked proposals, then you’re better off alone. If you want the world and the worlds beyond it, date a girl who reads.”
What I’m doing with my life
I work in the Mental health field. I like to think of 6 impossible things before breakfast. Well since I work night breakfast for me is at 6pm some days, so perhaps their not impossible anymore..

Otherwise I'm just enjoying life as it comes. Grabbing the bull by both horns!
I’m really good at
Organizing people.. not things, people... I'm the first one in my group of friends to get things going. I'm also apparently good at motivating people. I like to think I'm good at everything but that's a little cocky. I do catch on quick though. Oh and I've been told I am an "outcome engineer" whatever that means
The first things people usually notice about me
My eyes. There this weird green gold colour.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Books - Anything by JR Ward, Sherrilyn Kenyon, or Karen Marie Moning. Or whatever the Sony E reader store says I HAVE to read.

Movies- I'll watch almost anything. I dig scary movies though. Halloween Baby I guess it's Kismet.

Food - I'm trying this macrobiotic thing to see how it goes. I love Sushi though
Six things I could never do without
Family ((those your born with and those you choose))
A sense of wonder
A sense of humor
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Like I said impossible things. How things work. Why things are the way they are.. And strange as it sounds analyzing the psychoses of the different Rescue Rangers while sitting in an airport. Zipper had a Napoleon Complex.
On a typical Friday night I am
Sitting with friends either at their house or at the local diner discussing world politics philosophy or the latest sponge bob episode... Seriously just a collective think tank of useless information. But a good time is had by all.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
figured it was better that I devote myself to study the other great mystery of the universe… How you always lose one sock in the dryer!

oh and I colour code my closet
You should message me if
Your in the mood to chat.. Or need to be Inspired! And by inspired I don't mean sexting. Sorry not into that.

Oh and please come up with something more creative then wow you have an awesome Rack, while I and the girls are flattered, we've unfortunately heard it before and don't deny we're gorgeous and large. It's getting a bit old.
The two of us