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My self-summary
Myers Briggs Personality = INFJ (1% of the population...I'm special!)

Enneagram Personality (yes, apparently I'm pretty equal amounts of all three) =
1. Type 3 (Achiever): Success-Oriented & Pragmatic
2. Type 5 (Thinker): Intense & Cerebral
3. Type 9 (Peacemaker): Easy-going & Accepting

Perhaps I should tailor this a bit more since my situation has changed.

I'm a gentleman and I'm a sensual person. I'm looking for a genuine connection with a person who's on a similar frequency and vibe. And although I may be some people's definition of "the boyfriend/husband type", I'm not looking for a girlfriend nor a wife nor a significant other in the traditional sense.

I'm looking to share certain aspects of "the boyfriend/husband experience" with a woman who's willing to share certain aspects of "the girlfriend/wife experience".

I'm interested in laughs, shared interests, similar outlooks on life and deep discussions. However I'm not looking for "dates" nor a partner to go out with. I'm looking more for someone to stay in with for the most part.

In short, I'm looking for a friend with benefits that relates to me like a significant other. 😇😈

I'm a bay area native, born and raised in San Francisco.

Laughter, jokes, and physical games/competitions make me the most happy. I'd rather play flag football and ultimate frisbee with good people on a sunny day instead of trying to socially impress and out-maneuver a bunch of snobby folks at a stuffy get-together.

In my natural state, I'm friendly, optimistic, easy-going, relaxed, and silly.

I am a complete and total sucker for "the little things".

I am looking for someone with whom I can thoroughly enjoy spending my free time...Pretty simple, right?

What I’m doing with my life
Ask... :)

Like I said above in my summary section, I'm more interested in a genuine, friendly, sensual connection with someone who's more interested in a sexual relationship than a "dating" or "serious" relationship.

What I'm NOT looking for: marriage and making babies...I will never say never, but those things are not my current goals.

What I AM looking for: People that inspire the word "yes" when I ask myself, "Should I know this person?" A friend with benefits, friends, business partners, whatever. I'm looking for people that add value to my life rather than subtract it.
I’m really good at
Football, Song Pop, Writing, Coming up with Ideas, Batting Cages, Expressing Myself, Doing Impressions, Producing Music, Songwriting, Giving Advice, Making People Laugh, Weightlifting, Mud Races,
The first things people usually notice about me
My height or my choice in clothes...
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Movies: Matrix, T2, Ghost, What Dreams May Come, City Of Angels, Dorian Gray, Glory, Groundhog Day, Knocked Up, Eddie Murphy's Delirious, every Fast and Furious movie except that garbage "Tokyo Drift", Her, Ex Machina, all the Bad Boys movies, anything Denzel, most things Maryl Streep, The Rock (the movie and the actor), Will Smith, Robin Williams, sci-fi, time travel, action, superheros, romcoms

TV: Shark Tank, The Girlfriend Experience, Flesh and Bone, Casual, Luke Cage, Insecure, Dancing with the Stars, Ballers, American Crime Story, Modern Family, Family Guy, Saturday Night Live

Music: Prince, Michael Jackson, Ryan Leslie, Erik Satie, Muse, Hall & Oates, Madonna, Frank Ocean, George Michael, Jeremih, Mamas and the Papas, Miguel, Francis Lai, Ilya, Gnarls Barkley, Krizz Kaliko, Trey Songz, Tech N9ne, Weeknd, Usher, Drake, Missy Elliott, Sade, Fiona Apple, Justin Timberlake, Outkast, Nelly Furtado, James Brown, Lloyd, Aaliyah, Anthony Hamilton, Al Green, Snow Tha Product, Andrea Bocelli, Beyonce, Jay-Z, Bobby Valentino, Bobby Womack, Neptunes, Brotha Lynch Hung, Busta Rhymes, Mariah Carey, Cage, Canibus, Carl Thomas, Stephen Simmonds, Chris Cornell, Devin The Dude, The Dream, Erykah Badu, Goapele, India Arie, Daft Punk, Kanye, Jodeci, Kendrick Lamar, Snoop Dogg/Lion, Kiley Dean, LL Cool J, Tribe Called Quest, Digable Planets, Ludacris, Biggie, Tupac, Obie Trice, Petey Pablo, Playa, 3 6 Mafia, Queen Latifah, Remy Shand, Rick James, Rihanna, Roye 5-9, Sisqo, Tamia, Keri Hilson, Ne-Yo, Roger Troutman (Roger & Zap), T-Pain,

I was raised on rap, hip hop, soul, r&b, and jazz. My older brother was into Depeche Mode, Wham!, Oingo Boingo, Eurythmics, The Blow Monkeys, Faith No More, Sound Garden, No Doubt, RHCP, etc., so I'm into all that too.

Food: Burma Superstar, sushi, Mexican, Pizza, Trader Joe's, Greek salad, banana pudding, BBQ, Watermelon, Soul food, Cajun food
Six things I could never do without





I spend a lot of time thinking about
Women...Hey, I'm a guy!
On a typical Friday night I am downtown SF
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I enjoy watching HGTV...LoL
You should message me if
-You thoroughly enjoy laughing and making others laugh.
-You're an optimist.
-You are sweet and considerate.
-You are "low maintenance".
-You like combat sports like boxing and mixed martial arts.
-You are NOT superstitious (that includes subscribing to religion, deism, and theism).
-You have pretty hands and feet.
-You are articulate when expressing yourself.
-You are sexually open and expressive.
-You are not necessarily interested in getting married or making babies, lol.

One of these is negotiable. Can you guess which one? ;)
The two of us