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My self-summary
I've started getting over my dating hang-ups and insecurities. I am smart, caring, understanding, accepting, and a geek with a significant range of experiences.

I got over head games many years ago, and have no time for them. I'd rather be alone than in a manipulative or abusive relationship.
What I’m doing with my life
Moved out of Uptown, got a good suburban job, a good suburban apartment, and a freakin' Subaru.

Not quite to the American Dream of 1.5 kids yet, though.
I’m really good at
Words, typing, grammar, context, and syntax. I am an ace reader and rarely go anywhere without a book.

I have a great understanding of games, as long as they're not reflex-based (I am clumsy!). I can suggest the hell out of shows for your Netflix or Hulu queue in the sci-fi and fantasy genres.
The first things people usually notice about me
Apparently it's my glasses, because I'm told that I look very different depending on if I'm wearing them or my contacts.

I'm a big guy but I like to think I'm not intimidating. The second thing that people notice about me is that I have a degree in English and try to be at least moderately grammatical.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
TV: I cancelled my cable, so I have been watching a lot of Netflix, Hulu, & Amazon Prime. Game of Thrones, The Expanse, and American Gods all made the list recently.

Books: Just finished Seanan McGuire's Magic For Nothing.

Food: I probably eat too much at Chipotle. Love the Caspian Bistro.
Six things I could never do without
1. My new car. How did I get around in the winter before heated seats and all-wheel drive?
2. An occasional rum & coke.
3. Playing games with friends.
4. My dumb little $100 Android is glued to my hand.
5. Chipotle.
6. A good book, or even just a fun book.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Helping my mom, now that she's a widow.

How to survive the Trump administration with my sanity intact.

Social injustice.
On a typical Friday night I am
Relaxing, watching streaming video, and planning future adventures.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I actually am not allowed to say what my job is on social media.
You should message me if
You want to talk to an educated white man that is a feminist, hates Trump and modern Republicans, and believes in LGBTQ equality.

You don't just want a ride. I'm not a chauffeur!

"LOL" isn't in your texting vocabulary. If that is the case, I already like you and we should talk!

You are a gamer and would like to chat games. I am getting a good laugh out of my Gamma World game right now and love to talk about it.

Ethnic origin, religion, gender identity... these things don't matter as much as open-mindedness and compassion.

I like to think that I'm not superficial, but I exercise at least a little bit every day and I would hope that someone I dated would also take care of herself, too.
The two of us