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My self-summary
Hi All,

I'm a kinky, poly, business lady. I help run an art collective; I'm a published comic book creator.

Working toward my master's degree. Community service is my jimjam. Really, it's how I spend most of my time.

Simply put- I love freely, steadfastly but rarely. I'm mainly seeking friends with bennies situations. However, the friends part of that is actually a thing. I.e. let's hang out, grab a beer and a burger. Talk about random stuff. Also... sex. The later doesn't happen unless the former does. In theory, I'd like to continue to build my poly family and date humans... but, usually, that seems to happen after a good deal of time spent as friends. I'm open to possibilities.

I'd like to say that I'm award-winningly charismatic, but wouldn't we all. I'm pretty awesome and clearly modest.

My biggest role models growing up were Morticia Adams and Elvira. You'll understand the moment you meet me.

I enjoy my whiskey neat and my beer cold. My smile is bright; my smirk is sharp.
What I’m doing with my life
I'm blissfully happy with my girlfriend and our loving poly family complete with wives, boyfriends, girlfriends, husbands and the whole domestic pantheon of ridiculousness.

I spend my free time with my family of friends, making awesome shit happen.

I teach a variety of adult sex-ed classes, volunteer with community groups and mentor young adults

I live my principles.... I'm told that is rare.
I’m really good at
All of the above, I tirelessly pursue my passions.
The first things people usually notice about me
As I'm not other people and my friends are sarcastic assholes, I'm going to go with my wild hair. It's a mane of dreams and magic.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Favorite books are too specific, lets hit some artists and authors that I care about instead: Joseph Conrad, Jim Lee, Edward Gorey, Jhonen Vasquez, Ito Ogure, Frank Miller, Aubrey Beardsley and Roald Dahl are all worth a look/read.

I can talk about television... Steven Universe, Adventure Time, Archer and my love of Gordon Ramsey, Arrested Development, historical fictions like Downton Abbey and North& South... or I could just admit that I'm a fan of comic book movies and get over myself.
Six things I could never do without
Well, let's see. 1) Finishing profiles is clearly one of them since I'm answering this question against my better judgement. 2-5) The essentials: food, water, shelter, sarcasm 6) The family that I've created with my friends. These crazy people keep me strong.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
So many projects and the little time in which I have to compete them all.

Google Calendar
On a typical Friday night I am
FIGHTING CRIME! I mean... definitely not fighting crime... nothing to see here.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I will probably be lured to my doom with candy, stufties and cute animals.
You should message me if
Meh, this has been changing so much lately....

I'm looking for intimate relationships without the pressure of forever? I just moved to Chicago, split my time in other states, and will be leaving Chicago in about two years.... So I get overwhelmed at the thought of building commitments knowing that my presence here is temporary. But if you're the sort of person who can navigate that and my honesty about it.... we'll get along really well.
The two of us