SeekingPolaris
41 Mount Vernon, United States
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My self-summary
Hi all!

Ok, so I took a look at what I had up here on OKC and realized it was waaaaaay too long. Great for a college essay or term paper (typical for someone like myself who has taught English composition, really), but for one of these things, a bit ponderous.

That being said, here's what I'd like to say about me and what I have to offer you.

I am a proud nerd and know a good bit about a fair variety of stuff. I'm also a bit of a geek and love all things sci fi. As such I love a good conversation and can engage in a variety of subjects from the ramifications of Brexit to the comparative strengths and weaknesses of Marvel vs DC. If you know what I'm talking about in that last sentence...we should really get together sometime :) Indeed, I find intelligence in a woman very sexy.

I also love to laugh and think I'm pretty hysterical, though I'm self aware enough to know that this is fairly subjective. Needless to say, I appreciate humor in a woman and can give as good as I get.

As well, I am quite affectionate and don't find it onerous to give/receive texts or quick calls just because. I have no problems showing I care for someone and really would like someone along the same lines.

I am emotionally stable and reasonably good at communication, please be the same, I don't need the drama.

Along those lines, while I know any relationship takes time, work and effort, I don't believe that relationships should be a slog or a penitence. Love should be reasonably free from drama and bullshit. Being single has that advantage in that while it is lonesome, it is headache free. I genuinely want to be in a relationship, in fact I'd like to have a family sometime soon, but it is an itch I no longer want to, nor feel that I should have to, bleed in order to scratch it.

The rest we can discuss over coffee :)
What I’m doing with my life
Enjoying it as best I can, and frankly, I'm pretty blessed.
I’m really good at
Cooking, poetry, laughing, making others laugh, making other's feel special, Power Point presentations. Among other things.
The first things people usually notice about me
Either my sense of humor or my intelligence depending on what I'm talking about/doing at the time.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
I love action comedies best, though when with someone I am in love with I can be persuaded to join you in watching 'The Princess Bride' 'cause of the whole humor/action/love thing. Oh, and Andre the Giant is in it. As for music, I like a bit of everything, though if it helps narrow things down, my favorite band is Queen. Take from that what you will.
The six things I could never do without
Excluding the obvious...

1. God. My Catholic Faith and my relationship with Christ are very important to me
2. Family
3. Friends
4. My dog, Junior
5. My Laptop...it's a love/hate relationship, really, lol
6. Laughter
I spend a lot of time thinking about
It depends. Either:

1. The nature of human existence
2. God's plan for me in life
3. now would be a good time for fried chicken

or

4. why in hell, if he could afford all those contraptions, didn't Wile E Coyote (super genius) didn't just by a damn delicatessen instead of chasing after a scrawny Road Runner.

The above list is a sampler set, really.
On a typical Friday night I am
Open to suggestions
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
....Ok, OKC realizes this is the internet, right?
You should message me if
If you made it this far and have a smile on your face, you know you want to get to know me, so go ahead, give in to temptation. Please be genuine and sincere - I am not here to waste your time please don't waste mine. Thanks ;-)
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