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My self-summary
"Almost human but I'll never be the same."

IMPORTANT: I can't see "Likes", so please send me a message if you have any interest in talking.

Also, some bad news: If you never get messages but have like 50 likes...they're not real. It's a ploy to keep you interested or (better yet) to get you to become a "member".

Damaged. Scarred. Bloodied but unbowed. Overly dramatic.

I'm big on cuddling and intimacy; I don't just wanna fck...if that's all you want, plenty of guys will help you with that.

I've got a major serious side, and a major silly side. If you can't deal with either, oh well.

" least I trusted you...Whatever else I did wrong. I trusted you in the end.”
What I’m doing with my life
"There is surely nothing other than the single purpose of the present moment. A man's whole life is a succession of moment after moment. If one fully understands the present moment, there will be nothing else to do, and nothing else to pursue. Live being true to the single purpose of the moment."

Trying to be the person I believe I should be.
Trying to be happy. This relates to the above.
I’m really good at

Amateur criticism.

"All rock critics working today, at least the ones who want to do more than rewrite PR copy, are in some sense Christgauians."

Continuing to like: sports, slang, imprecision in moderation, things that aren't logical, and people whose Einsteinian hard-fought freedom hasn't turned them into mildly-annoying gnats.

"Turkey Creek Jack Johnson: Doc, you oughta be in bed, what the hell you doin this for anyway?
Doc Holliday: Wyatt Earp is my friend.
Turkey Creek Jack Johnson: Hell, I got lots of friends.
Doc Holliday: I don't."

Being a good friend to those that deserve it.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food (1, 2, 3, 4)

Noms. (5)
Six things I could never do without
Honor, Loyalty, Honesty, Valor, Love, Freedom.

Cuddling is right up there too.

Oh, and quotes...definitely quotes.

"Logic, logic, logic. Logic is the beginning of wisdom, Valeris, not the end." - Spock

"…Unanimity of opinion may be fitting for a church, for the frightened or greedy victims of some (ancient, or modern) myth, or for the weak and willing followers of some tyrant. Variety of opinion is necessary for objective knowledge…"

– Paul Feyerabend
I spend a lot of time thinking about
How long life would have to be to accomodate the many things it's apparently too short for.


“KIRK: It is useless to resist us.
THARN [on viewscreen: We do not resist you.
KIRK: You have twelve hours to consider your position.
THARN [on viewscreen: Twelve years, Captain Kirk, or twelve thousand. We are ethically compelled to deny your demand for our dilithium crystals, for you would use their power to destroy.
KIRK: We will level your planet and take what we want. That is
destruction. You will die as a race.
THARN [on viewscreen: To preserve what we are.”

Translation: Morality is *important*, boys and girls.
On a typical Friday night I am
This is a sh1tty question, let me re-imagine it:

NOTE TO SELF: If the messages/feelings/beliefs expressed in this profile ever seem silly/unimportant/trivial and/or overwrought:

You've turned into an a$$hole, congratulations.

Alternate location: San Junipero
You should message me if
Your skin is black metallic.

Please, no contact from women with shirtless photos.

All I really want, when you come down to it, is this:

A woman with a good heart that I care about (and vice versa) and am at least mildly attracted to (and vice versa), to cuddle with.

And if there's long periods of enjoying each other's company in whatever we do (because it's not what, it's with whom), great.

And if there's regular amazing sex, even better.

That's as basic and genuine as I can make it.

I really am kinda funny and cute and stuff. Get to know me!!!

You find this interesting:

"Is it not possible that an objective approach that frowns upon personal connections between the entities examined will harm people, turn them into miserable, unfriendly, self-righteous mechanisms without charm or humour?"

This applies to you:

"Raven hair, and ruby lips; sparks fly from her fingertips. Echoed voices in the night; she's a restless spirit on an endless flight."
The two of us