29Lund, Sweden
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My self-summary
I like people and love listening to when others talk about their experiences. I wasn't always like this, I'm really glad I changed since it's really awesome how fun it can be listening to other people's stories. :D

Proud computer nerd :D

Cuddling <3. I love cuddling and everything with physical connection. It's the best method to get me from a bad to a great mood :D This has never failed, not even when I'm grumpy, it goes away in like 2 seconds...


A bit too honest (usually scares people away :P). I don't like playing 'the game' when dating, or being indirect with hidden agendas. I would love to just connect with people heart to heart directly. No expectations of outcome, no hidden agendas, just plain and simple talk. :)

That's a bit of me I guess :)
What I’m doing with my life
Developing games, developing apps, developing myself.
Spreading joy (I hope :P).
Thinking ...A LOT
Writing about personal development on my blog ( — PRO TIP: A great place to stalk me.
Writing ebooks on the same subject
I’m really good at
Coming up with multiple solutions to a problem. Thinking outside the box. Not giving up.
The first things people usually notice about me
I smile, laugh a lot, and I'm quiet (I like to listen and reflect what people say)
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Kingkiller Chronicle, Harry Potter Deathly Hollows, Oryx and Crake, Ready Player One. Otherwise I like to read books by Dean Koontz, and... Dean Koontz and then some more from Dean Koontz. I really like Dean Koontz's style of writing. :)

I listen to everything except RnB and rap. Some examples of music i regularly listen to: In Flames, Kent, Yann Tiersen, Beethoven, Coldplay, Chopin, Infected Mushroom, Nobuo Uematsu, Lindsey Stirling, Ludique, Muse, System of a Down, Rammstein, Volbeat, Radiohead, Slagsmålsklubben, various C64-remixes, etc.

My favorite three games are Final Fantasy VII, Mass Effect-series, and Crysis.

Favorite movies: Amélie from Montmartre—I see a lot of myself in Amélie and Yann Tiersen's music is exactly my type of music that goes straight into my soul. Other than Amélie I like The Intouchables, Lord of the Rings, Matrix, Alien-series, The Man From Earth, Inception, The Shawshank Redemption, Star Wars, Pulp Fiction, X-Men, Pirates of the Caribbean, Kill Bill.
Six things I could never do without
Cuddling and physical touch/intimacy. Intellectual and philosophical talks. Awesome friends :D. Sex, but maybe that's part of physical intimacy, so scratch this... My piano for expressing myself. Board and computer games I guess? :P
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Envisioning an awesome future and other super important stuff, like why the grass is green, how to remember water my plants and when to shave.
On a typical Friday night I am
Preferably at home. I like dancing, but it's usually too crowded and too load at clubs.
You should message me if
You want a new optimistic friend to connect with :)

If we stay friends, cuddle buddies, become sexually involved, partners, or never meet or speak again after the first date that's for the future to decide :) I don't have any expectations on a new relationship :)

I'm a mix of poly and relationship anarchist. So I should point out that I'll never be monogamous. Although to be honest I thought poly people were way crazy and only doing it for sex (which I think is fine now). I'm in it for the love though. I guess you could message me if you're interested to know more about this too. Again I have no expectations (I still have hopes though :P).

I know, my presentation is way too long... But that's who I am :)
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