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My self-summary
IMPORTANT NOTE: This profile is severely outdated and much of the information within has changed, especially my status as single and looking for a relationship. I am NOT looking for anything but friends, with nothing sexual involved. An updated profile is coming soon.

Here's the deal. I'm hesitant to start a relationship right away, but I do want one. I just don't want to rush into anything. But who knows, maybe someone will come along that I'll have that connection with.

Disclaimer: I swear, I listen to loud obnoxious rap music, I sleep all day and stay up all night whenever possible, I smoke cigarettes. I smoke bud, I'm a spiritual eclectic, and I'm a big beautiful woman. As of today, I'm unapologetically me, and If you can't deal with it, then don't waste my time. :)

Also, I'm big on honesty. Let's not play mind games kay? Been there done that. If we're talking or chilling and you want a fwb type situation, tell me that. (Probably not gonna happen, but seriously just have the balls to say what you actually want.) If you want more than that, or less, let me know.

This all comes across serious and somewhat bitchy. I'm really not bitchy, promise. (:
What I’m doing with my life
What everyone else is doing. Just figuring it out!

I work. I spend time with my family and friends. I create. I laze about. In the summer I swim, in the winter I hibernate.
I’m really good at
Listening. I'm the friend you call when you can't figure shit out. Or you just need to vent. I guess because I'm non-judgmental and I usually have a unique perspective. At least that's what they tell me.

Reading. I'm a bookworm. (:

Writing. I write poems that don't rhyme and stories I never finish. Maybe someday. I like vignettes.

Being patient and tolerant of people's crap. Rudeness, etc. Could also have something to do with the fact that I loathe confrontation and avoid it at all costs.
The first things people usually notice about me
My hair, probably. It's all thick n junk. Or nail polish. They're usually pretty colorful. Maybe my tattoo? And I'm always wearing some kind of quirky jewelry. Other than that? Honestly..? The 'donk. Seriously I have a big butt. And I cannot lie.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Favorite book is Shadow of the Wind by Carlos Ruiz Zafon. There are lots of others. Too many to mention really. But I love Harry Potter and The Hunger Games. I thought Twilight was decent entertainment, though not brilliant writing.
I like campy old movies like Young Frankenstein and Clue and Roxanne. I loved The Dark Knight. Inception was a fav. I like pretty much all kinds of movies except horror (which I will tolerate).
Music is the same, just replace horror for country and screamo. I'm a fan of Adele, Mumford and Sons, Billy Talent, Drake, Florence and the Machine, Skrillex, Buble, Owl City, B.o.B, ASAP Rocky, Lil Wayne, Nicki Minaj, Mac Miller, Childish Gambino, Eminem, Wiz Khalifa.
I'm not picky with food either. My favorite dish is steak bearnaise, or chicken curry. Weirdest things I've ever eaten: sushi, frog legs, rabbit, wild boar, some kind of antelope that I can't remember the name of at the moment.
The six things I could never do without
I'm assuming that means inanimate objects, not including food/water, etc.
1. Books.
2. Some way to write things down.
3. Fun accessories.
4. Somewhere comfy to sleep. I like sleep.
5. A hot shower. I don't like to be dirty.
6. If I were stranded on an island.. I might go insane if I didn't have a scrunchi or something to put my hair up. It's dark. And thick. It'd get hot. And messy. And get in the way. We can't have that. :/
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Worrying about the future. Laughing at inside jokes. Philosophizing.
On a typical Friday night I am
Probably working. If not then I'm out with friends. Movies maybe. Late night steak n shake, also a possibility. Galavanting around Walmart in the am, perhaps. When I'm not with friends, then I'm probably catching up on my latest tv, or some such thing.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I sing in the shower?

I'm bi-curious sex-wise but I don't think I'd want to actually be in a relationship with a girl.
You should message me if
You have some intelligence. You think I'm cool. You live in Tennessee. (Because IF I ever want to meet you, I'm not going to another state, sorreh!) You're interested in wiccan/pagan stuff. You like reefer but it doesn't keep you from living your life or having a job. You're not a prude, but not a perv. That's not too much to ask for right? (: