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My self-summary
I am Seth and I am here, with my girlfriend, to find that third person to make our monogamous relationship into a poly triad. We are currently looking for another female to add to our relationship. Our goal is to have a mutually loving relationship with another female.

I'm not going to lie... if you message us you're probably going to spend more time talking to Chantal than you will me because, let's face it, she' talks... a lot. She's also better at it than I am. You'll see what I mean about the talking a lot below.

Here's a little bit more about each of us:

Seth - I would rather someone be honest with me, rather than be nice to me. Anything worth taking seriously is worth making fun of. I would like to say that I'm unique. I love to be sarcastic, and I enjoy joking around. I'm a sucker for kids, and I do not mind dating someone with kids. I'm into martial arts and I'm working hard on getting myself into better shape. I love to cook, be outside, and I also really enjoy playing video games, especially ones I can play with my friends. I have a mohawk.

Chantal - I am a wife in demeanor. I dote upon the ones I love and want to be doted upon. I don't require constant attention I just need to know that I matter to you and you want me to be around and enjoy me being around. I don't want kids RIGHT NOW. I would like them before I turn 35. I'm 28 at the moment.

I am funny, honest, and work really hard to bring smiles to the faces of those I care about. I'm told I'm really easy to talk to because I set the tone that you are accepted for who you are, not that we'll get along but, until I've made the effort to verify that we don't get along we probably will. I am an ENFP and Inspiring. I like having a relationship where everyone is treated with respect via honesty and understanding between everyone involved. I think when you're honest from the start you save everyone time. If you can respect others like I do, then when disagreements come up it's more of a discussion or a debate and less of a fight. I'm not a big fan of fighting since I say things I don't mean when I'm angry.

I live by the golden rule but that doesn't mean that I'm entirely a push over. I don't like stepping on toes but I do like looking at things like a gold system. If you've treated me to more gold than I've treated you, I'm not going to make much of a fuss. If I've treated you to more gold than you've treated me, when that balance gets unreasonable, I will make a fuss. Fairness is key with me.

Since the "My Details" can't include Chantal's information, here you go:
White. 5'7". Curvy. Does not smoke. Rarely drinks. Never does drugs. Religion is Christian but not too serious about it. Sign is Virgo and it's fun to think about. Some College. Doesn't have kids but wants them. Likes dogs and likes cats. Speaks English fluently and Japanese as a beginner (still learning).
What I’m doing with my life
Seth - Working in a greenhouse and going to school for a yet undecided horticulture degree.

Chantal - Working in a call center and going to school for a degree as an Administrative Assistant.
I’m really good at
Seth - Cooking, swimming, camping, being outside, video games, board games, fishing, hiking, and being an alpha for my dogs.

Chantal - Art and being a pain in the ass. At least I'm cute while doing both. Being compassionate. I'm really bad at jokes and attempts at being funny. I am really good at being off the wall "where did that come from" weird. I'm really bad at talking sometimes because when I talk about a topic I haven't already thoroughly thought out or decided my position on I have to think about it more. I am really good at over thinking things because when I want to say something I try to be sure I say what I mean. I'm also really good at saying things I don't mean when I'm mad because I don't take the time to do the aforementioned task of thinking things through. I'm really bad at taking hurtful sarcasm, it's a pre-programmed reaction from a long and very scarring relationship but I usually can pick up on those things as time goes by being around people who do it. Analyzing situations and trying to discern the best outcome and usually the most efficient outcome. I work hard on my relationships. If something isn't working I'd rather figure it out than leave and if it can't be figured out, I'll leave.
The first things people usually notice about me
Seth - How tall I am and how much they like my eyes and my HUGE.... sense of humor.

Chantal - My hair, yes it's natural. My eyes because everyone knows green and red are more than good Christmas colors! I am emotionally transparent and I have a lot of emotions. That does not mean that I'm constantly a drama queen. I can't hide my emotions very well. I don't like lingering in feelings though so I try to work through them quickly. I don't like being angry or sad for long.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Seth - Too many to even try to list.

Chantal - HA internets ur funny... as if I could sit here and write them all down and come back and change them when it changes...pfft forget it... I will say though that I enjoy mostly dorky things Dungeon's and Dragon's, Firefly, Glee, Harry Potter, LotR, Cards Against Humanity, and Magic The Gathering. And I would do very bad things to be with Harley Quinn even for a minute.
The six things I could never do without
Seth - Friends, Family, Internet, Food, pets, and sunlight.

Chantal - Basic human necessities for optimal survival
Use of all body parts that I was born with
My sense of self
My memories
My Dog
Communication tools or someone to communicate with
(I answered this question the way that I would if a Djinn were involved. Details are paramount when making wishes. Common role playing knowledge.)
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Seth - My brain never stops and it just jump and jumps.

Chantal - Where my life is going and if I'm on the right track to get there. How much I miss my family and what I'm going to do if my mother doesn't beat her cancer.
On a typical Friday night I am
Seth - haha...hmmmmm

Chantal - I can't say because I don't know. But, I'll tell you that eating, breathing, playing with my dog, talking to Seth about something, sleeping, and working all happen on that day (or any given day) at some point.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
Seth - HA nice try internets, you're going to have to ask me personally.

Chantal - At times I am a pessimist by reflex. Something I am constantly working on. Most people would never even notice it because I'm so upbeat but, my brain is a silly thing sometimes. Oh... and I've also LARP'd before.
You should message me if
You're interested in finding more about Chantal or myself. Also, if you're someone who isn't afraid to be honest and/or you're curious about what we want from our relationships.
Chantal - Or if you just want to chat! I love a good chat.