30Lansing, United States
Join today
Find great matches with our advanced matching system!
Join today
Find great matches with our advanced matching system!
My self-summary
Let me start off by saying I'm a good person. I've spent the last few years trying to make a relationship work that I knew from the beginning wouldn't; so I have a bucket list of things I'm looking for in a partner that might sound really demanding, but it's for my own sanity and safety. That said, and if you're still with me, lets move on.
I'm pretty sure Marilyn Monroe said it best. “I'm selfish, impatient and a little insecure. I make mistakes, I am out of control and at times hard to handle. But if you can't handle me at my worst, then you sure as hell don't deserve me at my best.”
I'm a busy student in the Lansing area looking for "The One," as cliche as that might sound.
I am nerdy, but I took out a lot of the bragging of those things out of my profile. I feel I'm attracting the wrong type. I play video games a lot. And I love every minute of it.
I'm very nostalgic.
I'm a sucker for David Bowie anything.
I have a few tattoos and piercings, but my job prevents me from showing them off (and I'm perfectly okay with that!).
I'm an sarcastic Queen. Sometimes I can be insensitive to the situation, I'm unforgiving. Although I'm selfless most of the time, I get fed up like everyone else.
I'm a slave to music.
I like to argue, but when it comes down to it, I just look forward to making up.
I don't like people who can't handle a little criticism. I'm a protector, I will defend my true friends to the death.
Once I'm your friend, unless you do something absolutely HORRIBLE, I'll be there forever.
I graduated school as a Registered Medical Assistant last Dec. I ended up landing a desk job in an office in pays the bills, but I'm still looking for something more fulfilling.
It makes me sick to my stomach when I see those MAN + WOMAN = MARRIAGE bumper stickers.

I am smart, honest, and sarcastic
What I’m doing with my life
I'm a medical scheduler. I would like to become a certified emergency nurse or something with Forensics. One day I will gather up my courage and go back to real college.
I’m really good at
Listening to others' problems, and helping them through it. Being a hopeless romantic. Interior decorating. Playing Fallout. Playing games, period.
Watching gory, bloody movies without hurking. Yes, I used the word, "hurking".
The first things people usually notice about me
I'm short. My hair. My butt. (I have 42" hips.)
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
A)Books - Darkly Dreaming Dexter, Catcher in the Rye, Paradise Lost, False Memory, Anything by Thomas Hardy, A Perfect Day for BananaFish, Mine on Thursdays, Hitchhiker's Guide to the Galaxy, any H.P. Lovecraft, The Complete Works of Lao Tzu, too many to say.

B)Movies - Labyrinth is hands down my favorite movie of all time. If you don't like someone quoting out loud during a movie, by all means don't ever watch this with me! As far as movies go, I will watch just about anything. Horror is my favorite genre, followed by sci-fi, fantasy, drama.
Ask me about any movies, I'm sure I've probably seen them.

C)Music - This is a big one. If I didn't have music, I would not exist. I love the piano, I own one. I can also play the clarinet, flute, and I'm looking to take up the violin. As far as others go, I dabble in a little bit of everything, just ask me. I've probably heard some out-there stuff.

Foods are a touchy one. I will try anything but I'm pretty simple and selective when I eat. Cheese, pasta, cheese, haha. I love quesadillas, grilled cheese sandwiches, peach Light and Fit yogurt, and string cheese.
Six things I could never do without
David Bowie (hands down)
Strongbow, unless it's fall, then it's MBC Screaming Pumpkin Lager
Grammar (!!!!!!)
My family (what's left of it, anyway)
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Everything. I tend to over-analyze even the smallest things. I also spend a lot of time thinking about where I'm heading in life.
On a typical Friday night I am
I try to get out but I'm pretty shy. Unless someone I know invites me out, I'm not usually one to initiate going out.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I'm a person that can't just sleep with someone without attachment. One night stands are not an option for me, so if you're just looking for one, move on, please.
I actually have two things. This one isn't private though. *****I am not some 100 pound girl. I want people to know this. I have curves. If you don't want someone who is curvaceous, don't message me.*****
You should message me if
You have your own car. I like driving; just not being the only one who does.
You have a job. I don't mind splitting bills or switching off, but I'm not supporting anyone but myself.
You have your own place. If you still live with the parents, it's not a deal breaker, but I will take that into mind.
Those things aside, I'm looking for someone who will shake things up while still letting me be me. Someone who will bring me flowers for no reason. Someone who will celebrate when I accomplish something and push me not to settle for "good enough." Someone who is open to compromise and doesn't want one of those "I dunno, what do you wanna do?" relationships. I want a decision maker who isn't afraid to take the reins every so often, or isn't afraid to speak his mind and not bottle everything up. I also want to date someone who is open to the relationship going farther than just seeing each other on occasion. I want to go slow at first, but I need to know that you're not going to walk away because you're too scared that it's going to go somewhere.
The two of us