41Saint Paul, United States
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My self-summary
I'm very silly, nerdy, intense, passionate about everything that is important to me, and currently evolving. I spent a lot of time watching horror films and playing video games, but I also enjoy a random outing to some place with a spectacular view of the Twin Cities skyline, or just an place to get into some of the more eclectic subcultures.

I will not compete with a dog for your affection, animal lovers are fine, but if your dog is the center of your world and in more than 60% of your photos then it probably won't work out.
What I’m doing with my life
I am learning a new perspective, and in a process of redefining myself. I am looking for opportunities for self improvement while pursuing my career in IT.

I'm trying to get out more and meet people. I have spent the last few years quietly avoiding crowds, and I am trying to break away from that and be seen a bit more. I am working on a whole new set of social skills, and I am looking forward to trying them out.
I’m really good at
Singing! I have a strong singing voice, and I have been a singer in a goth metal band for several years. My style somewhat of a cross between goth/new wave and operatic metal. I am not very active in the music scene right now, but I still write music when I feel inspired. It just isn't the focus of my life anymore.

I'm also a good conversationalist, and quite adept at making people laugh.
The first things people usually notice about me
My eyes, I am told. They are a very deep green color, and I have received a lot of compliments on them
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Film and Television: I like horror, fantasy, history, mysticism, and philosophical media. I watch a lot of horror films. I am open to watching other things with others, but when I am by myself, that's all I watch.
I have a lighthearted interest in the occult and the macabre, serial killers. I don't take it too seriously, but do find it fascinating.

I watched way too much Monty Python when I was younger, and have developed a very odd sense of humor as a result. I don't watch much TV, but I shyly confess to watching guilty pleasure. Judge if you want, I don't care :-p

Music: I like a lot of different music. My strongest likes include metal, goth, industrial, pop, and classical.

Food: I really like Italian, Thai, Chinese, and I do love a hearty steak as well. I try to eat healthy, but I confess I have a healthy Taco Bell addiction. It is shamefully irresistable.

Books: I don't read as much as I once did. It's on the To-do list for 2013.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
What I want to do next in this new direction I am taking my life. I sometimes overwhelm myself with ideas and many of them never come to much, but having too many ambitions is better than having too few, so I can live with that.
On a typical Friday night I am
That depends on how I feel. Some Fridays I will go to the gym, then just relax with a bath and a movie. Other Fridays I will go out and see a local band I know, or maybe go to a club with a few friends. Some Fridays I may just stay home and play a game. And other times I may get together with a small group of friends and just hang out or do something we enjoy.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
Ask me yourself
You should message me if
You want to hang out and have a few laughs and just have some fun. If something more comes of it, then great, if not, that's ok too. I'm not in a rush to find someone, but not unwilling to allow it to happen.
The two of us