I am Intelligent, Confident, and Indulgent.
I am very politically active.
I am a Polyamorous Feminist.
I have been involved in the San Francisco BDSM community for the entirety of my adult life.
I work out a lot. Primarily strength training with some martial arts and other things mixed in. I like swimming, water polo, hiking, yoga and I'm always looking for new activities.
I travel as much as I can. I lived in Germany for a year and I have traveled to eighteen countries, mostly in Europe, but have not seen nearly enough of my own country.
It's been an admittedly long time since I sat down with a paper book for personal pleasure. Though I love Sci Fi, Satire, and other fiction, the majority of my reading in the last few years has been academic or digital.
I'm not terribly picky when it comes to movies, just not horror. As long as they are well made and cause some sort of emotional or intellectual response, whether that be laughter, sadness, or reconsidering life as you know it. My favorite genres are Drama and Sci Fi
I don't watch a lot of TV these days, but when I find the time I love Drama, Sci-fi, and the rare Sitcom. House of Cards, Game of Thrones, Sons of Anarchy, Mad Men, Star Trek (especially TNG), Doctor Who, Firefly, The Newsroom, How I Met Your Mother.
I have a very diverse taste in music. I love everything from Opera to Metal. My go-to genres are usually different types of EDM and Industrial, with an occasional switch to jazz or alternative.
I love gourmet food and drinks (I have expensive tastes). I really enjoy trying new cuisines from around the world and my absolute favorite food is Sushi. Cooking with new ingredients and trying new and healthier things in the kitchen is very fun.
Also I enjoy high quality alcohol and mixing drinks. I love Wine tasting, and have brewed some beer, but my true love is Whisky and Classic Cocktails.
One "secret": I have HSV1 (ask me about it if you need clarification)
You are a fun loving person and you think we would get along.
You would like to have an intellectual or philosophical discussion or debate on just about any topic.
You want someone to workout with.
You want someone to dance with.
You want someone to travel with.
You want to explore the amorphous grey area between hookups and committed relationships.
You have any questions about the San Francisco BDSM scene or the lifestyle in general.
Or if you just think I'm sexy.