I'm also very big on equality in relationships and don't buy in to gender roles.
Books: Laurell K. Hamilton, Jim Butcher, Dean Koontz, J.R.R. Tolkien, Sun Tzu, Harper Lee, Neal Stephenson, Edgar Allen Poe, Dylan Thomas, and Miyamoto Musashi are some of my favorite authors.
Movies: Generally anything that can convey its emotion well enough with some cleverness usually gets my attention. I will say I'm a huge cinephile and usually prefer foreign/independent movies: The Fountain, Requiem for a Dream, Stay, Hot Fuzz, Shaun of the Dead, Heights, anything by Kevin Smith, Serenity, Star Wars, Moulin Rouge, Legend, The Princess Bride, Best in Show, Labyrinth, Goonies, The Dark Crystal, The Neverending Story (the first one), Lord of the Rings, Watchmen, V for Vendetta, Perfume: Story of a Murderer, The Squid and the Whale, Shortbus, Rocky Horror Picture Show, lots and lots of foreign movies (Cache, Brotherhood of the Wolf, Amelie, Roman De Gare, The Lives of Others, Avenue Montaigne, Apres Vous, Walk on Water, Seven Samurai, City of Lost Children, 2046, Run Lola Run, Let the Right One In, and The Host just to name a few); Satellite, Dancer in the Dark, Clay Pigeons, 500 Days of Summer, Half Nelson, Harold and Maude, The Fall, Lars and the Real Girl, Adventures of Priscilla: Queen of the Desert, Brick, American History X, Much Ado About Nothing, Secretary, American Psycho, Inception, Dark City, Usual Suspects, Seven, Memento, Leon: The Professional, The Fifth Element, The Secret of Kells, Eternal Sunshine of the Spotless Mind, Blade Runner, Donnie Darko, anything by Quentin Tarantino, Death at a Funeral (the British version), Kinky Boots, Moon, anything by Joss Whedon...the list goes on and on.
Shows: Battlestar Galactica (which happens to be the greatest show of all time), Firely, Buffy The Vampire Slayer, Angel, Futurama, Game of Thrones (or at least it WAS good), Rome, the 1995 X-Men series, Sherlock (the British version), 30 Rock, The Newsroom, Peaky Blinders, Wentworth, Orange is the New Black, Parks and Rec, Bob's Burgers.
Music: Too big of a topic to really list everything, but some favorite bands include Metallica, Dave Matthews Band, Cat Power, Sia, Dimmu Borgir, Junior Boys, old Cradle of Filth, DJ Shadow, DJ Tiesto, Armin Van Buuren, Devotchka, Baroque, Bach, and some Beethoven; M83, Damien Rice, David Gray, Bjork, Portishead, Muse, Massive Attack, Potlatch, Explosions in the Sky, Thievery Corporation, Amon Amarth, Of Monsters and Men, Opeth, Otep, Orange Betty, Boards of Canada, Regina Spektor, Fiona Apple, Cloudkicker, Tool/APC/Puscifer, In Flames, The Xx.
Food: I am willing to try anything once; I love veggies and lamb, sushi, soups, spiced meat. I love tofu and tempeh; Thai and Japanese food as well. My weakness is probably potatoes though...in any form.
I'm a huge LGBT supporter.
I don't put up with bullshit.
I'm not here to take care of you or fix you.
I'm more of a cat person, but dogs are alright.
I want to marry Eddie Izzard, COVERED in makeup.
You're not homo/queer/trans/woman/CIS/bi/human phobic, but above that you can be open enough to accept that they aren't any different than you are. Leave your judgmental, bigoted ass at the door.
Oh, and for the love of everything ever, have some fucking opinions about SOMETHING once in a while. Your ambivalence is not cute. It's obnoxious.