33 Quarryville, United States
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My self-summary
Hey, my name is Shelly. I consider myself a pretty down to earth person. I'm gonna be honest here, sometimes I say things that I shouldn't say, I can be judgmental, mean (but you have to really piss me off), needy and jealous. But then again, who isn't all those things?!?
A lot has happened in my life lately, and that's made me really re-assess my things! Getting RID of people, and bringing people into my life that matter! Who can lift me up, not just tear me down!
I'm all about helping others out! I love to do things, go places. I’m very devoted to whatever I do, and believe with all my heart that I am here for a reason, I have something great to do someday. I don’t know what that is yet but as soon as I do you better believe that I’m gonna do it with all my heart.
I was hit by a car in September of 2010. It was a crazy freak accident and ordeal, but it resulted in me being a stronger person.
I love children. Mine more than anything! He’s 2 years old. He has a great father, but not the right person for me. I think kids are one of the things that make the world a better place.
I’m completely devoted to friends and family. I have a very large “variety” of friends, most of who are older than me, and many of them are far away. I love getting to know people. I love to hear stories about people’s lives; where they’ve been, where they’re going, and what they plan to do when they get there. I was born and raised in the mid-west, but in the city, so I feel as though I’m well rounded and I can do anything I set my heart on. I try to think things through before I do them, and try to never be caught off guard. But believe you me; it’s happened more than a few times. I am truly blessed.
I don’t always speak my mind, but if I don’t like what you’re doing, I’ll probably tell you, but I also like to be quiet, that’s when you learn a lot about people. Silence isn’t always bad. I also live by my heart, if it’s telling me not to do something, I won’t do it. I tend to be sarcastic, when I’m not you know there’s something wrong. I’m not easily persuaded by others, if you want something from me, you’re gonna have to work hard to get it. I’m no pushover. Sometimes I’m very random. I try to make everything a learning experience. If I fail, I try harder the next time; when I fall, I get back up. I don’t always see the glass half full, but half empty isn’t always bad, at least there’s somthin’ there. I love to go out and have a good time, but I also like to stay home and just relax. I’m really easy to get along with. I’m a people pleaser to the max, but that’s starting to change, it’s annoying. Well, I am what I typed, so I am who I am. Catch Ya later.
What I’m doing with my life
I currently work at a gas station, but were going to be closing for 3-4 weeks to renovate the place so I'll be waiting tables in that time.
I also work in direct sales, and enjoy it so much! Thirty-One is a great company! However, I tend to want to spend all my commission on product!

I have my son week on week off. So the weeks I have him I spend as much time with him as I can! He's my miracle.

Looking for someone HONEST! Apparently it's harder to find then I thought!
I’m really good at
Being upbeat and positive.
I thoroughly enjoy cooking!
The first things people usually notice about me
Smile, because I do it A LOT and I love to smile as well! I'm generally a happy positive person.
And... my sarcasm, it's my second language really!
Okay, so those are the first two things people notice, why limit a person to one?!
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Books- Devotionals, I like all types of books. Science Fiction/fantasy, mystery, the list can go on and on. I like pretty much anything by Gregory McGuire, or Nicholas Sparks, Running with Scissors, Blue Like Jazz, Wicked, The Painted House, really anything by John Grishom, I like to read! OH Shawshank Redemption, but I'm not really a fan of Stephen King.

Movies- I LOVE MOVIES, although I'm slightly behind on my movie watching as of late. I love movies about music the most generally, but that's because in my mind, music is life, or at least a large part of it! I HATE Horror movies!

MUSIC- Like I said music is insanely important, well at least it is to me! I listen to a little bit of everything; I worked for a Christian radio station for 2 years and loved every second of it! My music library is vast and diverse, I could start naming groups, but that would get kinda long! Lately I've been listening to a lot of alternative, pop, R&B, ROCK, Jazz/blues, country, punk, ska..... I love cover bands also, ya gotta get a start somewhere ya know!
The six things I could never do without
1- God! If it wasn't for him, I LITERALLY wouldn't be here!

2- My son , he's the most important person in my life. After God, he's the first one who I think about when making decisions!

3- My family (physical and church). If not for these people, I wouldn't be who or where I am today. They life me up constantly, and help me keep my head above water.

4- Friends, because there always there for me, and we have the BEST times together! Oh my, I can't even explain everything we've done and been through.

5- MUSIC! I've been involved in music my entire life, I don't think I could live without it!

6- my computer & cell. And I live far away from a lot of my family and friends, that’s how I stay in contact with everyone!
I spend a lot of time thinking about
the future- What God wants for my life.

My family, friends, school, happiness (mine and everyone else's)! Who doesn't think of all these things though?

the MILLIONS of things I want to do with my life. I have so many ideas and things I want to do
On a typical Friday night I am
Currently.... I have no life I work about 55-60 hours a week! So Friday night's tend to consist of working! Sometimes I'm lucky enough to have some wine when the day is over. Lol
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I'm not an overly private person.
You should message me if
You're not looking for something physical on a first date, or soon there after. I want to establish a real, honest, committed, loving, caring, relationship with someone.

I'm tired of all the games, and all the guys who say they're tired of the games, but are really just full of crap!