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My self-summary
So it's time for a refresh of this part of my profile so here goes.

I'm a Single parent , Widower, with a young son. He's my 1st priority my life, and there is a 99. 9% chance that you will never meet him, it's nothing personal but honestly I limit the people who are will be involved in the his life.

I am a Poly,Kinky, into BDSM, Pro gun, Pro Violence, Gear head Feminist*,Artist, Pro Queer, LGBT, Science channel loving, Cartoon network watching, Game Maker Gamer Nerd, who works out (not often enough but I'm working on it) I am an amazing group of what seems like a massive group contradictions,but it actual comes together quite nicely and I'm always a good conversation.

I don't claim to be a good person, but I'm trying my best, I have been told that I'm awesome to talk to because i'm really good listener.. I have also been told that I'm a pain in the ass because I'm a really good listener

I'm acutely aware of my issues and hangups, I'm constantly in the process of self assessment and Self Improvement I always want to be better than I was the day before.

*I believe that we are equal and everyone's issue are important, at the same time all women are not given the same the regard of Men, And if you tell Men have all of the same issues I'm going to laugh in your face. I am Man who has been Sexual Assualted, Emotional battered and abused, And I'm still Don't have the level concern and fear in my personal safety as 99.9999% of any woman anywhere.
What I’m doing with my life
I work as a Consultant for major financial company,( But the Devil pays benefits) I'm working to get my creative endeavors to make more money so I can stop being part of the problem.
I’m really good at
Kung fu Barhopping listening Writing, drawing, being a random repository for lots nerdy/geeky facts and there is this little trick that I do with my tongue that i'll show you only if you are nice.

For better or worst I pride myself on working hard enough to understand how people think, but this only after a long time of watching and listening to them.
I also make meals that taste and smell so good that I have made vegans return to the darkside of the tables and not look back.
The first things people usually notice about me
at 6'1 250lbs and being pretty well built, I would love to say that it's my eyes but its my size and fact that I'm normally laughing to myself about any number of evil thoughts that I am keeping to myself. I try to find the amusement in life.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
My favorite book series is the Vampire Hunter D novels and loads of manga.
I have returned to reading American comics, and back to tearing through novels between all of my creative work.
My Things have become contemporary fantasy,
and of course Sc-ifi.
If you have any recommendations i'm all ears

Movies are action movies comedy movies and horror movies

Music anything as long as it's good

TV: Twin Peaks, Full Metal Alchemist (including Brotherhood) Bleach, Naruto, Cosmos, Mythbusters, Good Eats, Outrageous Acts of Science, Worlds Dumbest, Adventure Time, The Amazing World of Gumball, Regular show, Daily show, Agents of Shield, I have Hulu plus, Netflix, Crunchy roll and Amazon Prime.. I could be watching anytime in freaking 12 mins i get free a day.

when it comes to food
not moving and not covered in mayo, mustard and ketchup is about it.
Six things I could never do without
The Boy child
Internet Access(and all that entails)
Books(all types)
Good sex
My "family"
I spend a lot of time thinking about
The future, and how am I going to make my plans happen and still make everyone happy.. and How that may not be able to happen.
How to improve in all my skills.
Creating a unified theory of sexual encounters, basically an end to bad sex, mind you that is far different then idea of great sex for everyone ., but is the 1st step to getting there.
Edit :I have created the theory . IT works . However due the it's immense power and number of Dirty Bag MRA,wannabe Dom/Daddy I am withholding, Fuck you Neckbeards
And Zombies..
Oh and Giant Robots
On a typical Friday night I am
I'm watching the sunset waiting for the night to hit. Then put on my super hero costume call in the team and start trying to save the world.
Or Cooking,, I like to cook. I don't get to go out very often but i don't really mind. its good to spend time with the boy
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I stuck at normal relationships, but I rock the nonstandard ones.
I also seem to be what i like to call "2nd look" or the get back around to guy but its always ends up with "why didn't we hook up sooner " and i remind then that I did speak to them like 6 months to several years ago
You should message me if
Do you have any good Book recommendations in the vein of what I like to read.

You just want an interesting conversation and can prove the other end

If you are looking to actually make a mental connection before the possibility of a sexual one.
The two of us