22 Asheville, United States
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My self-summary
I can tie a shoe faster than anyone you know, and I firmly believe that to be aware is to be alive.

I'll tell you my MBTI if we can agree to not bring it up in our first conversation.

I took a cold shower by choice every day for two months, and I still take one almost every day. Feel free to ask me why.
What I’m doing with my life
I work full time as a medical assistant for an organization that provides behavioral health services to disadvantaged youth.

I follow my drive to find purpose, meaning, and fulfillment in life. I do my best to foster the growth of myself and those around me. I spend as much time as I can in nature.

I take advantage of every opportunity to be silly. Wordplay is my jam and I'm smooth like butter.
I’m really good at
Tying my shoes extraordinarily quickly.

I'm also good at parallel parking, reccomending books to people, wilderness/primitive living skills, not having a circadian rhythm, photography, cooking, and avoiding small talk
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
I'm currently reading Cat's Cradle by Kurt Vonnegut

A few my favorite books are:
Island by Aldous Huxley
Promethus Rising by Robert Anton Wilson
PiHKAL by Ann and Alexander Shulgin
The Book on the Taboo Against Knowing Who You Are by Alan Watts

Shakey Graves, Boards of Canada, Dr. Dog, Etta James, Nicolas Jaar, Elephant Revival, Darkside, R. L. Burnside, The Growlers, The Beatles, Sigur Ross, Doc Watson, The Smiths, Grant Green, Little Milton,My Morning Jacket, Bill Frisell, Wilco, Greatful Dead, Alabama Shakes, Otis Redding, Jeff Buckley, Pink Floyd, Lake Street Drive, Brian Eno, Grant Green, Grizzly Bear, Doc Watson, Led Zeppelin, Peter Bjorn and John, Explosions in the Sky, Nahko + Medicine for the People, Godspeed You! Black Emperor, The Decemberists
The six things I could never do without
Personal growth
Fulfilling relationships
Alone time
Time in nature
Creative outlets
Friends of Bill
I spend a lot of time thinking about
“The truth is you already know what it's like. You already know the difference between the size and speed of everything that flashes through you and the tiny inadequate bit of it all you can ever let anyone know. As though inside you is this enormous room full of what seems like everything in the whole universe at one time or another and yet the only parts that get out have to somehow squeeze out through one of those tiny keyholes you see under the knob in older doors. As if we are all trying to see each other through these tiny keyholes.

But it does have a knob, the door can open. But not in the way you think...The truth is you've already heard this. That this is what it's like. That it's what makes room for the universes inside you, all the endless inbent fractals of connection and symphonies of different voices, the infinities you can never show another soul. And you think it makes you a fraud, the tiny fraction anyone else ever sees? Of course you're a fraud, of course what people see is never you. And of course you know this, and of course you try to manage what part they see if you know it's only a part. Who wouldn't? It's called free will, Sherlock. But at the same time it's why it feels so good to break down and cry in front of others, or to laugh, or speak in tongues, or chant in Bengali--it's not English anymore, it's not getting squeezed through any hole.

So cry all you want, I won't tell anybody.”

― David Foster Wallace, Oblivion
On a typical Friday night I am
Feeling both smug after winning bets involving how quickly I can tie my shoes
You should message me if
You would like to challenge me to a shoe tying contest

You want to have a conversation through which we may remind each other of parts of ourselves we have long forgotten