"I appreciate a man who likes me for my "mind" and not my body, but who "plays with my body", not my mind." Capice?
Anyone who has any kind of intelligence and has worked in the professional world, usually has no time for game playing and is serious as they age, to find that someone for the rest of their life, "come grow old with me...the best is yet to be." Not looking for many, just that "right" person. This is the last phase of your life to finally get it right!