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My self-summary
I am intelligent and multi-facted indivdiual and very creative and artistic. I am a hopeless romantic and demand that the person I get involved with is a hopeless romantic too. I am caring, sincere, sympathetic and empathic, kind, loving, giving and generous along with my time as well. I am a giver in life, not a taker and looking for the same. I am very monogamous - one woman man and am looking for same; honesty; no game playing, no head games of any kind. Looking for someone with integrity, honesty (not when it suits him), fidelity, passionate about who he is with and his life with them but not to the suffocating point where it becomes over kill and too clingy or possessive; everyone needs their own space at times, non-smoker, non-drinker, no drugs, no body piercings including no ear piercings, no tatoos, clean cut, masculine, but love a stache like Tom Selleck. :) A lot of men will try to grow one, but the skinny skimpy ones aren't that great looking, in my opinion. I like a man who can carry a stache' well on his face like Tom Selleck has (wide and thick) or none at all. Not everyone can pull off a great stache. Yes I know I am particular, but who isn't in one way or another. A great stache or clean shaven is what I like. I come from the old school of how a man should be, not the new one. I like men to look like men. I am looking for someone in SW VA or close enough to get to SW VA :). Long distance relationships usuallly never work out unless one party moves closer. Sorry, not into inter-racial relationships.
What I’m doing with my life
I currently work as well as getting involved in the areas I like to be involved in. Keeping busy and working keeps you young versus not. I enjoy talking and being with people. And I imagine I will continue on this path till I can no longer do it. However, once I get involved most of my attention will go to him, versus to everyone else, and I would think he would do the same for me. However, I am not looking for someone who has to be praised 24/7 to boost his ego only while my own life takes a back seat.
I’m really good at
I am very artisitic and creative. Paint, draw, calligraphy, needlepoint, knit, arts and crafts, make quilts, interior design, gourmet cooking, great baker, sing at open mics (something I would have been too shy to do when I was much younger), have a soprano voice and sing mostly Streisand songs and songs from the Eagles, Linda Ronstadt, Journey, etc. Used to sing in a rock and roll band 60-70's music in Michigan. Like to do Karaoke - that is when you really see who can sing and who can't, LOL. Anything that is creative I am good at.
The first things people usually notice about me
It can go both ways here. I can come off shy (which some people equate to snobbyness) or I can be upfront and personal; easy to talk to. Just depends how comfortable I feel around someone. Attractive, good dresser, easy to get along with, feminine in dress, easy to talk to on any subject, polite and mannerly.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
I like all kinds of movies, westerns, musicals, dramas, comedy, horror, mysteries (whodunit), documentaries, cooking shows, cooking contests, all kinds of music except rap. Books I usually read are biographies of famous people, or fiction; romance stories as I also write them. For TV, usually movies, chick flicks, (LOL), winter olympics, PBS, Discovery.
Six things I could never do without
my son, my two cats, a roof over my head as in a house that keeps you warm in the winter and cool in the summer, music that I like to listen to, my lover for life, and great food.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
A lot of things...whatever creeps into my mind at any given time - many and varied thoughts.
On a typical Friday night I am
usually winding down from a work week and just relaxing; watching a good movie and eating popcorn and planning out my weekend or chatting on aol at shesasexxxywtr. Yes I have a short story published with a small publisher in Michigan.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
is nothing at the moment. :) I am not always an open book to read. :)

"I appreciate a man who likes me for my "mind" and not my body, but who "plays with my body", not my mind." Capice?
You should message me if
You are serious of having a long term relationship for life, as I am not interested in just chatting...As I said before, I am not into playing head games. Not into long distance relationships as they never work out and use too much energy and take up too much time when it can be spent on someone closer. Looking for someone closer to where I am or at least has a means to get closer to where I am or can send me a plane ticket to get closer to him ;)ing.

Anyone who has any kind of intelligence and has worked in the professional world, usually has no time for game playing and is serious as they age, to find that someone for the rest of their life, "come grow old with me...the best is yet to be." Not looking for many, just that "right" person. This is the last phase of your life to finally get it right!
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