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My self-summary
I want somebody to share, share the rest of my life.
Share my innermost thoughts. Know my intimate details.
Someone who'll stand by my side and give me support, and in return she'll get my support.

She will listen to me when I want to speak about the world we live in and life in general.

Though my views may be wrong, they may even be perverted, she'll hear me out and won't easily be converted to my way of thinking, in fact she'll often disagree, but at the end of it all, she will understand me.

I want somebody who cares for me passionately with every thought and with every breath.
Someone who'll help me see things in a different light.
All the things I detest I will almost like.
I don't want to be tied to anyone's strings.
I'm carefully trying to steer clear of those things.
But when I'm asleep, I want somebody who will put their arms around me and kiss me tenderly.

Though things like this make me sick, in a case like this I'll get away with it...

- Depeche Mode

Not so keen on online dating. But it seems necessary in this time and age.

I've lived in CA, NY, NJ and CO before moving to the TC. Been here 6 years and still sometimes feel like a stranger in a strange land.

So who am I?

I'm a reader who works in television. I'm smart, but have made some silly mistakes. Live and learn, right? ... I'm handy with tools and have assembled Ikea furniture sans instructions.

I like to cook. Cooking with two is more fun than one.

I'm looking for someone to play with ... like racquetball, skiing, road trips, camping, climbing, bowling, skating, kayaking, shooting (but not hunting), archery, motorcycles, ATV's, fishing, scuba diving, motor boats, and sailing... (there's probably more, but really, who has that kind of time these days?)

If you get me in the right mood I'm hilarious. I've made more than one person choke on their drink. Thankfully, it doesn't happen often.

I appreciate sarcasm, and stupid funny is sometimes still ... well, funny.

If you follow Meyers-Briggs, I have self classified myself an ISFP personality. Knowing that hasn't changed anything.
What I’m doing with my life
I've got an 11 year old daughter and I'm dedicated to being the best dad I can be.

I like to visit friends and family in CO, NY, CA when I can.

I just bought a house again and I'm fixing it up.
I’m really good at
Music, video editing, home improvement projects, cooking, capturing spiders, kissing boo boos, napping.
The first things people usually notice about me
My blue eyes and lashes.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Documentaries, The Walking Dead, Breaking Bad, Californication, Shameless, Jon Stewart, Real Time, Top Chefs, Chopped

Everything from Metallica to Yo Yo Ma. Right now I mainly listen to bands like Alt J, Local Natives, Spoon, Foo Fighters, Passion Pit, pretty much what they play on The Current...

I like all sorts of food... Thai, Steak, BBQ, Indian
Six things I could never do without
My daughter
The sun
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Are you kidding? My mind is in a constant whirlwind. Life? My life? The environment. My daughter. Work. Love.
On a typical Friday night I am
Half the time I love getting turned on to new places and discovering fun things to do. Live music, art, good movies and trying new restaurants always works for me.

I don't hang out in bars unless there's a good reason -- good food, a band, or meeting up with friends.

The other half of the time I'm trying to do fun stuff with my daughter.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
This profile has been tweaked and revised countless times.
You should message me if
You made it this far and think there could be a spark or maybe we'd connect as friends OR you want to give me something valuable like a free trip to Italy, or a lake cabin or something like that...
The two of us