52 Toronto, Canada
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My self-summary
It just wastes your time and mine. Thanks.
smartcreativestylishsexy...can you unpackage that?
that's me. and those attributes in others interest me.
please consider, before you read on.

I like quick wit.
the creative process.
a great lexicon.
a great dance partner.
iconoclastic style.
a sensual approach to life.
a bad ass, contrarian point of view.
an open heart.
dark chocolate with salt. damn.

the rest should be an adventure.
What I’m doing with my life
Working with commitment; communing with my teenage son; maintaining close friendships; trying to find the right balance between giving, and taking care of myself
I’m really good at
word play, finding humour in almost anything, observing with a critical eye, insight, empathy, supporting the people i care about, spotting integrity, remembering details
The first things people usually notice about me
my hair, style, laugh, vocabulary, and my honesty. although maybe it depends on whether i'm entering or leaving the room, ha.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
electric blues, Bogie n Bacall, hot peppers...
k, a little more specific:

SRV, Jeff Healy, Black Keys, Black Crowes, Aretha, Stevie Nicks, Joni Mitchell, Bonnie Raitt, Aerosmith, VH, BB King, Willie Nelson, Van Morrison...always open to suggestions...come on, expand my horizons :)

To Have and Have Not, The Usual Suspects, Unforgiven, All The President's Men, Georgia O'Keeffe, Basquiat...

gelato, all kinds of ice cream, black licorice, noodle soup, big salads, fruit and cheese, crusty bread, pizza, good coffee, bold wines, smooth bourbon...and salted dark chocolate, of course.

i'm eclectic. i don't play favourites. currently by my bedside: Loving Frank [Lloyd Wright]; The Snowden Files; Red Hot Touch; Persuasion; Sexual Personae; Othello; Art History's History.
The six things I could never do without
1. beautiful images, designed and natural
2. intelligent men
3. intelligent women
4. intimacy
5. playful wit
6. learning

The order keeps flipping around.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
doing the important things well
On a typical Friday night I am
what's typical? not a fav word in my vocabulary
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
when my dog, BB King, had knee surgery and he couldn't follow me upstairs for the night, i slept on the couch so he wouldn't be sad and lonely.

i will still break my stride to step on a dried leaf, just to hear that crackling sound.

i still make my teenage son blush with my ribald humour. he insists he is more mature than i am...haha...go figure.

infer what you will.
You should message me if
you think we can playfully challenge each other ~ on many levels.