52 Toronto, Canada
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My self-summary
It just wastes your time and mine. Thanks.
smartcreativestylishsexy...can you unpackage that?
that's me. and those attributes in others interest me.
please consider, before you read on.

I like quick wit.
the creative process.
a great lexicon.
a great dance partner.
iconoclastic style.
a sensual approach to life.
a bad ass, contrarian point of view.
an open heart.
dark chocolate with salt. damn.

the rest should be an adventure.

i'm a little unconventional...a little mischievous. i like a little stubble, a little edge. if you tend more towards rebel than routine, we're more likely to fit.

and...if you can rock a hat...i just might melt ha.

i enjoy intimacy, value honesty and loyalty. i don't jump on bandwagons, i prefer to test and examine.

I've had two interesting careers. i work for social justice. writing has always been a part of my life.

I'm looking for a full and well-rounded connection. I'm ready for something long-term. A good match for me...a late 40s to youthful, mid 50s guy.

I'm 54. This is what 54 looks like. It feels confident, sexy, energetic.

There's really nothing better than the comfort of closeness with someone I completely trust, who is worthy of that trust, and who feels the same ease with me.

Did you music, dancing, Bell Lightbox, Bloor hotdocs, theatre, AGO, ballet? Or gallery hopping, window shopping, second hand shops, markets? An americano , fresh cut fries, or ice cream?

Well then, I'm listening...
c''s summer in Toronto...and the caress of warm air makes everything in the city that much more enjoyable. let's get out there and see if a few sparks fly!
What I’m doing with my life
Working with commitment; communing with my teenage son; maintaining close friendships; trying to find the right balance between giving, and taking care of myself
I’m really good at
word play, finding humour in almost anything, observing with a critical eye, insight, empathy, supporting the people i care about, spotting integrity, remembering details
The first things people usually notice about me
my hair, style, laugh, vocabulary, and my honesty. although maybe it depends on whether i'm entering or leaving the room, ha.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
electric blues, Bogie n Bacall, hot peppers...
k, a little more specific:

SRV, Jeff Healy, Black Keys, Black Crowes, Aretha, Stevie Nicks, Joni Mitchell, Bonnie Raitt, Aerosmith, VH, BB King, Willie Nelson, Van Morrison...always open to suggestions...come on, expand my horizons :)

To Have and Have Not, The Usual Suspects, Unforgiven, All The President's Men, Georgia O'Keeffe, Basquiat...

B&R Pralines and Cream, noodle soup, big salads, fruit and cheese, crusty bread, pizza, good coffee, bold wines, smooth bourbon...

i'm eclectic. i don't play favourites. currently by my bedside: Loving Frank [Lloyd Wright]; The Snowden Files; Red Hot Touch; Persuasion; Sexual Personae; Othello; Art History's History.
The six things I could never do without
1. beautiful images, designed and natural
2. intelligent men
3. intelligent women
4. intimacy
5. playful wit
6. learning

The order keeps flipping around.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
doing the important things well
On a typical Friday night I am
what's typical? not a fav word in my vocabulary
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
when my dog had knee surgery and he couldn't follow me upstairs for the night, i slept on the couch so he wouldn't be sad and lonely.

i will still break my stride to step on a dried leaf, just to hear that crackling sound.

i still make my teenage son blush, with my ribald humour.

infer what you will.
You should message me if
you think we can playfully challenge each other ~ on many levels.