I don't expect you to be some wonderful character out of a TV show, just a human being. I'm not judgmental, I'm one of those humans too. HOWEVER, I am only looking for women who live nearby and are willing to meet. Sorry, but I'm not interested in a cyber "romance".
I want to meet a single woman who'll be my partner and the love of my life. We don't always get what we want. If you're not actually single, that's OK so long as I know from the START and I'm not being used to hurt someone else.
I'm also learning to play the guitar and I sometimes sing and play at open mic nights; though I must confess I'm not at all good at these activities, let alone really good.
Strumming my guitar.
Walking the two enormous labradors that belong to my friends and which I (fortunately) do not have to look after.