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My self-summary
"You're weird." That is the most common phrase I've heard from people about myself for my entire life. I have come to accept and own it. I am myself, and very proud of it!!

My outlook on life is based off of a few good theories: Q: "What do you think of the world's situation as a hole??" A: "Throw dirt in it and start all over again!!" Meaning that you can't let the little little things get to you. Life is too short and stressful on its own, let alone what your mind can do if you let it get to you. Don't dwell on the past, because you can't change what's already done, so why worry about it?? "No matter what happens, I know that everything will turn out...that's just the kind of person I am." To sum all of this up, stress and especially worry are not things I let in to my life easily. "Worry is a misuse of imagination."

This is the best quote I've ever heard that was said about me, "I've never met another guy like this my entire life, and I bet you 50 bucks you never will either" I really hope that's true.

I am polyamorous and have a wonderful partner. We are open to seeing other awesome people.

So that's that, but I'm much more than listed here...
What I’m doing with my life
I work for a major utility company, reading their's a start to get my foot in the door and it pays the bills. I work to live, not live to work.
I’m really good at
I never try anything, I just do it...wanna try me??

Understanding what people are trying to say (not just nodding and pretending), even if I know nothing about the subject. Listening, making people laugh, solving puzzles, giving advice, understanding how things work, back massages, singing, acting like a fool, being corny, quickly pulling humor out of thin air, sitting through movie/show marathons, planning things, making costumes, doing nothing...not sure what else...
The first things people usually notice about me
I'm a little bit nuts in a good way. I like fun things and am not afraid to admit my opinions no matter how they make me look.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Books: Anything by Sutter Cane. I don't really read because my mind wanders around way too much and I forget what I've read by the time I get to the bottom of the page, no matter how much I enjoy the story. I do enjoy a good audio book though!! In the Dark Dark Closet In the Dark Dark Room, The Outsiders, Where The Wild Things Are, Harry Potter, Chronicals of Narnia, American Gods.

Music: Birthday Massacre, A Perfect Circle, Silverchair, Slipknot, Alanis Morrisette, Lacuna Coil, Nightwish, 30 Seconds to Mars, KISS, Incubus, Britney Spears, Marilyn Manson, Lily Allen, The Darkness, Nirvana, Stone Temple Pilots, Mushroomhead, System of a Down, Metallica, 311, Rob Zombie, White Zombie, Primus, Mindless Self Indulgiance, Spice Girls, No Doubt, G.W.A.R., Tom Petty...

Movies: Rock & Rule, Streets of Fire, Something Wicked This Way Comes, In the Mouth of Madness, REPO!, Moulin Rouge, Romeo + Juliet, White Oleander, 13, Clue, 10 Things I hate About You, Pump Up The Volume, Wet Hot American Summer, Suicide Kings, Labyrinth, Boondock Saints, Princess Bride, Willy Wonka, Wizard of Oz, Return to Oz, Rock & Roll Highschool Forever, Toy Soldiers, Sleeping Beauty, A Goofy Movie, A Gnome Named Gnorm, Harry Potter, LOTR, Matrix, A Knights Tale, Bring It On, Adventures in Babysitting, Star Wars, I Love You Man, Brothers Bloom, anything by Pauly Shore, and just too many more to mention...

TV Shows: Buffy The Vampire Slayer, Angel, Firefly, Alf, My So-Called Life, Wings, Tales from the Crypt, Twin Peaks, It's Always Sunny in Philadelphia, Supernatural, Game of Thrones

I love to cook and can appreciate any and all types of food...the only things I don't like are black licorice, cilantro, watermelon, and popcorn. Sushi and seafood are my favorites.
Six things I could never do without
(In no particular order) Friends, love, some form of entertainment, games, sex, helping people to laugh/feel good.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Long term goals, shopping, women, what I want to do VS. what I should do, vacationing, sex, shopping...
On a typical Friday night I am
Hanging out with a good group of friends, going out to a karaoke bar or night club to sing & dance the night away or sitting at someone's apartment watching movies or playing board games, and ordering/cooking something. I like to stay in just as much as going out.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I'm willing to admit every/anything...I am what I am, and very proud of it.
You should message me if
You like movies, like to shop, think I'm cute, we match well, you can sing Black Velvet in a very sexy voice, are up for a Buffy/Angel/Firefly marathon, want to play some board games or if you just want to say hi. I'm pretty friendly.
The two of us