37Buffalo, United States
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My self-summary
First off, we all hate filling out these things and there's always so much more to a person than what we could ever type into a profile. Don't let anything here turn you away, message me (or respond) and let's talk to really get to know each other. It is what these things are all about after all right? You never know how happy you could be until you take that first step, let's take it together. Worst case, we don't click and we move on; best case, we actually mesh and take it from there ... gotta send that message first though :) .... anyway ...

I'm 36 years old and own my own house and I do not go out and party or hang out at all hours of the night. No drugs at all and alcohol is VERY seldom if any. I try to take care of myself by eating healthy and going to the gym. I'm generally hanging out at home and relaxing, but I would like to find someone I can go out and do things with. I'm always down for just about any and everything. I'm the type that looks for the silver lining in every situation and tries to make the best of any circumstances. I feel that everything happens for a reason and the harder it is the better person you will be once you make it through. I enjoy making people laugh and can be a bit of a goofball who can make light of any situation; but I'm also very serious when I need to be and am very responsible. A big kid at heart but also very grown for my age after everything I've been through in life. I do have a daughter that I raised by myself since she was 2, but she's 18 now and is out on her own. So any potential significant other should not worry about that.

I'm a romantic at heart and I've always been the relationship guy, not the serial dater. I'm either single for a very long time or in a serious relationship for a very long time. Still looking for the right person to spend my life with. I'm sure I'll know when I find her and I'm very hopeful. As cliché as it sounds, she'll be like my best friend that I'm always happy with even when we're mad. We can talk to each other about anything and we always make each other laugh. While I'm admittedly a home body most of the time, I do enjoy outdoor stuff very much also. It's been a while but I love camping, hiking, fishing, museums, exploring WNY and many other things. I'm always open to trying new things actually look forward to getting out more once I'm talking to someone.
What I’m doing with my life
Well right now I'm on here so currently I'm actively searching for my better half.
I’m really good at
Making People Laugh / Sarcasm / Joking - I'm a natural jokester (I'm happy if I can make you smile). Conversations - I'm a good listener and I enjoy intelligent, meaningful conversations. Giving Advice - I naturally tend to see all angles in every situation and I'm pretty good at giving advice from an outside perspective or from my own experiences. Numbers - I'm an Accountant (definitely not your stereotypical though). I'm also very perceptive and can read people very well; my first impression of someone is usually spot on.
The first things people usually notice about me
Always my damn dimples lol.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Book - Favorite Book ever is Swan Song which is basically like Stephen King's "The Stand". I also used to be big on Dean Koontz but its been a while. I used to read all the time but haven't in quite a while.
Movies - Wayy too many to name. I'm a big movie buff and love many movies from all genres. I'd have to say comedies and action are my favorites though. I can watch movies all day any day.
TV - There are way too many to name but the first to come to mind: Walking Dead, Game of Thrones, Ray Donavan, The Straight Supernatural, Criminal Minds, Archer, Family Guy, South Park, American Horror Story, Grey's Anatomy, The Black List, Grimm, etc.etc. I can go on all day.
Music - I can deal with anything ... Except Country. I grew up on rap / hip hop, but the crap they come up with now-a-days is ridiculous so I find myself liking 80's and 90's Rock/Soft Rock and Old School Stuff. Hell I even like old Metallica (but only a few of the classics) lol.
Food - Anything healthy. The less sugar the better and the more protein the better. If it fits into my Macros it's all good.
Six things I could never do without
- Protein
- A Job
- My Health
- A Nearby Gym
- Google
- Coffee
I spend a lot of time thinking about
- What do I have to do to find that RIGHT lady to be with? Someone that I can completely be myself with and she can with me. Someone that I couldn't imagine living without. Someone I can trust without any doubt and who can trust me just the same.
- And why the hell did I use THIS as my username? Its my original email I created when I was 14 and now just makes me look like a total creep ... I'm really not though trust me I tried to change it lol.
On a typical Friday night I am
Hanging out at home watching movies or season marathons. Possibly at the gym or occasionally I bring my work home with me if there's too much to finish at the office. When I'm with somebody though we'd be either out doing something together or cuddling in front of the TV ;).
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I'm really a big dork inside with a bit of a goofy side. Business and maturity on the outside and a big kid at heart.
You should message me if
- You made it through this damn novel I just wrote and I haven't bored you to death and you think you might be interested.
- You thing we'd be a good match. You can enjoy hanging out home just as much as going out doing something together.
- You like to laugh and can hold a decent conversation
- You're Mature above all else, not the party all the time type, is ok hanging out at home relaxing and watching movies, ... did I mention to please be Mature and not overly dramatic?
- You'd like to talk to a guy that isn't your typical pig of a guy. You're looking for a serious relationship with a serious person ... or even just a friend with a possibility of more.
- I would prefer someone who understands proper English and grammar and knows how to spell properly. It would be great if you understood the difference between: Two, to, and too ....Your and You're .... Quit, Quiet, and Quite ... There, Their, and They're ... Through and Threw .... Right and Write ... Weather and Whether, etc. etc. Of course I don't expect everyone to be perfect lol. It just always gets my attention when someone actually still understands proper grammar is all. Brains and maturity in a woman are just as attractive as looks.
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