36Umeå, Sweden
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My self-summary
I am often quiet and withdrawn. Being around people can make me uncomfortable and exhausted, but I still want to do it as much as possible. I like to think things through carefully and plan for the long term, but I despise being confined by plans and preconceptions. I think I have answers to every question, but I have never kissed a girl. I want everyone to read what I write and give me feedback, but I can hardly put two words together when anyone asks me what I think about anything. Basically, I'm a person. With Asperger's.
What I’m doing with my life
There's two things I want: To finish my book and to meet you, the wonderful woman I want to spend the rest of my life with.
I’m really good at
Stories. Extrapolation. Straightforwardness. Caring. Priorities.
The first things people usually notice about me
I never seem to know what I should say. I may drop extremely personal information without warning. I mean, my mom died last year and I'm still not sure how to feel about that. Also, I tend to mumble when I speak.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
A lot.
Six things I could never do without
I do not own six things I could never do without. Property is not something I want to control my life. There are things that are important to me, but they're not things that could really be taken from me; language, imagination, people, music, stories, the sky.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
How to make it possible for people to do what we want, be who we want and go where we want.
On a typical Friday night I am
At home, writing, maybe taking a break to walk down by the river, possibly watching a movie with a friend.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I don't know how to measure the privateness of my personal information, but I can try: My dad, who was absent for a large part of my life, has asked me to define what relationship I want to have with him, and I have absolutely no idea how I'm supposed to know that.

I think that I spent so much of my childhood learning to adapt to circumstances I had no control over, and having no idea that having control over them was a thing that could exist, that being allowed to tell someone if and how much I want them in my life is unimaginable to me.
You should message me if
If you don't want to play games. If you want to have and to give yourself to someone to grow old with, to have a life together with, to explore the boundaries of reality and imagination together with. If you can see a possibility for love. If you're as lonely as I am. If you read my blog at and still want to.
The two of us