61Bellingham, United States
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My self-summary
I like to think of myself as a multifaceted person with intricate and subtle personality traits - but the short version is:

I'm a humanist.
I'm a hedonist.

And I have a rather pronounced sex drive, with tastes that range from everyday "vanilla" sex to very esoteric and kinky (perverted?) practices. I've been into BDSM my entire adult life.
What I’m doing with my life
Since I am self-employed I work a lot; my spare time is devoted to kinky sex, reading, writing, walking, and furniture-making. And I do attend social affairs at least once a week: Parties, music theater, BDSM events, cocktail parties and the like. I have traveled extensively - dozens of countries on three continents.
I’m really good at
My profession.
Writing & reading.
Political and philosophical discourse.
Well, I guess I'm good at the things that I like and do often....
The first things people usually notice about me
Positive outlook on life.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Sci-fi: "The Mote in God's Eye."
Biographies: Cronin, "Napoleon;" Fest, "Hitler."
Philosophy: St. Thomas, "Summa Theologica;" Hobbes, "Leviathan;" Locke, "Two Treatises on Government;" Marx, Engels, "Das Kapital."


Richard Wagner's Ring Cycle

Uriah Heep, "The Magician's Birthday" (God, that was tough - I love virtually all kinds of music...)

Grand Cuisine / Haute Cuisine
Six things I could never do without
Intellectual conversation
Good food and wine
Physical activity (i.e. walking, furniture making... yanno?)
I spend a lot of time thinking about
How to enhance the quality of my life, the lives of those I touch, and the lives of those who touch my life. Always, I strive for the better and finer things in life: better and finer food, better and finer sex, more sophisticated and rewarding discourse, and the like.
On a typical Friday night I am
Reading, or out on the town, or writing. Or in bed (use your imagination...).
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I can show my feelings openly, and do so frequently. It was hard, at first.
You should message me if
- you want to know me better;
- like to engage in kinky sexual practices (not necessarily with me) or are curious about them;
- enjoy a good conversation; and
- fit the description of who I am looking to meet.
The two of us