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My self-summary
Im lucky to have the life i do. I am thankful to those in my life who have been there for me. I hope i live up to their investments in me.

I am an old soul.
What I’m doing with my life
Working as an airline pilot, and planning for the future.
I’m really good at
Thinking, writing, conversation.
The outdoor-life.
Flying airplanes.
Symbolic thinking.
The first things people usually notice about me
My long eyelashes -- I have eyelashes like a girl's. Also my hands are beautiful, the hands of a nobleman.

My heart is in the right place.

I think my greatest asset is my integrity.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Anything written by James Salter or Hemingway. Death in the Afternoon is particularly nice. Gods of Tin makes me cry.

Movies -- The Bourne Trilogy, Crimson Tide, Downhill Racer, Volver, The Matador's Mistress, C.A.R.C.A., Thirteen Days, Jeremiah Johnson (anything with Robert Redford), The Motorcycle Diaries.

Shows - MI-5, IT Crowd, 30 Rock, Studio Sixty on the Sunset Strip, NOVA, Frontline, Parks and Rec, This American Life.

Food -- I haven't met much food that I don't like. I cook mexican food and some french food. Thai food has a lot of appeal to me, but so does a good steak and a bottle of red wine. Dried meat and corn soup is alright too -- I am flexible.
Six things I could never do without
1. Friendship
2. A place to feel at home
3. A connection to the natural world
4. Rest
5. Good ideas
and 6. Truthful literature. For example, here is a piece by Andy Martin which I find particularly truthful:

"The simple goal of all skiing is to attain divinity: to achieve that god-like state in which all the differences between self and snow, the skier and the skied, melt and fade away in the sun to leave nothing but a sense of pure being."
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Ethnography, how to write about people, where my cat goes when he is outside, theory, flying airplanes, skiing, being in the mountains, trying to remember impressive sounding quotes and song lyrics.
On a typical Friday night I am
Having dinner and having conversations with my friends.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
You should message me if
You think you might like what I have to offer. You want to learn something. If you aren't afraid to step out of your comfort zone and take a risk.
The two of us