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My self-summary
Successful, dynamic, romantic and active!

Both ways is the only way I want it!

(Read the 2014 best seller by Maile Malloy.)

A silver fox who enjoys women who are young at heart.

As a people we are living longer. Long enough to start second lives.

I'm looking for a meaningful conversation and open relationship. Ideally I'd like a long term but non-exclusive partner in the USA. I have a lovely long term partner who lives in Ireland (see picture). For various reasons, (mainly her child custody and my livelihood) we are unable to be together, so we are both dating others.

I'm a smart, creative, literary, fun-loving man looking to connect with intelligent, active, vibrant women 35- 65 or so, with whom I share values, interests, fun times and activities.

I'm a war veteran and a survivor of 9/11 in lower Manhattan. As such, I'm an empathetic, down-to-earth, sincere, masculine type of guy with a good sense of humor.

My pictures are as they have been dated, several very recently.
What I’m doing with my life
I am in the healthcare and pharmaceutical industry.

My story is strange, in a way, because in addition to a business career, I also have a MFA in creative writing. Working on a novel and have published a lot of scholarly nonfiction.
I’m really good at
Public speaking, writing, wine selection, having the "craic" (Gaelic -- look it up on Wikipedia).
The first things people usually notice about me
Deep blue eyes, kind of a baby face.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Movies: Life of Pi, Schindler's List, AI, Sixth Sense, Enemy at the Gates.

Books: Crime and Punishment, Maltese Falcon, 1984, The Magus, The French Lieutenant's Woman, many more to be added to this list later

Music: Love Beethoven, Lady Gaga, Bach, Neil Young, many more to be added to this list later

Food: pasta bolognese, Asian fusion, a good steak, venison, coq au vin, whole grains

Shows: Les Miserables, Miss Saigon, Book of Mormon, Beautiful.
Six things I could never do without
Good food and wine, getting out in nature, the time to sit and write
I spend a lot of time thinking about
La condition humaine.
On a typical Friday night I am
Trying to find a good place to go and the right people to go out with to have some fun. Either that or a good dinner and movie or cultural event.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
You should message me if
If you think we might be able to enjoy each other's company, sharing laughs, adventure and quiet times.

If you're an adventurer and understand the meaning of "open relationship" or polyamory.

If you'd like a serious relationship but are not seeking your one and only.
The two of us