48Victoria, Canada
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My self-summary
Update: I am no longer attached. I will update my profile and say more sometime soon.
What I’m doing with my life
I have a good job in government that keeps me interested, engaged and challenged, most of the time. I'm trying to add more to my life outside of work. I've been working out (not that I look like a weight lifter). I enjoy hiking, kayaking. Writing is my creative outlet. I have been meditating though this hasn't become a regular activity yet.
I’m really good at
My job. Writing. Listening. Empathizing. Communicating. Making music mixes.
The first things people usually notice about me
I'm intelligent, easy to be with, compassionate/empathic, unique.

My eyes.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Book: Zen and the Art of Motorcycle Maintenance
Recently read Sex at Dawn which was awesome.

Movies: It's a Wonderful Life, many others

Shows: The West Wing, The Daily Show, The Colbert Report, Breaking Bad, Game of Thrones

Music: A range of music - lately: Ray Lamontagne, Fleet Foxes, Iron and Wine, Wilco

Food: Mexican, Thai, Sushi, Indian
Six things I could never do without
I'm not sure how many thing I could NEVER do without. The things I never want to do without include:

My partner

My dogs

My music

My friends

The ocean/nature

I spend a lot of time thinking about
Politics, social issues, and sometimes sports. Spiritual and philosophical questions.
On a typical Friday night I am
Tired, but still up for going out for dinner, a drink, and even some dancing.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I'll answer almost anything if you ask, but I won't put my biggest secrets out there unsolicited.

Having said that, I'll admit that I'm a voyeur. That doesn't mean I'm a peeping 'Tom' or that I'm here to collect naked pics. It means I like people-watching. I'm not just a visual voyeur. I like meeting new people and learning about their lives. I guess that's a little of what brings me to this site.
You should message me if
If you're open to alternative relationships and are not attached to monogamy and possessing the people in your life.

If you're looking for someone who's authentic, intelligent, honest, compassionate, fun and funny.

If you're in Victoria.
The two of us