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My self-summary
Gomez darling. Where are you...?

(Only contact me if you are looking for a lasting, passionate, secure, loving, nurturing, woman-positive, Gomez & Tish, heavenly partnership and marriage - sans Wednesday and Pugsley - but I'll take Lurch - with loving communication, appreciation, (hand kissing for sure!), creativity AND dedication, invention, dance, play, travel and fun! Who makes ME and US his top priority.

When you write, please tell me about your user manual, your career, work, and life lessons, travels, wisdom path, creative path, and experience in relationships - what kind, how long, with whom, your choices, and what your entrance, learning, and take-away has been from each.

And your vision. What is your vision for the rest of your life and lasting relationship!

On top of the sundae, tell me your feelings and experience with sex and sensuality, and your palette.


Must be well versed in some kind of Conscious Communication, (Harville Hendrix & Helen La Kelly Hunt's Imago Match Couples is one), daily appreciations, and desire for loving relationship... Yessssss....)

About me:

I dance, design, create, write, sculpt, costume, construct, travel... (I am a professional visual artist, pro ethnic dancer, and work full-time as a local government arts programmer. Creatively I'm currently working on another series of garments and a public art work, teaching world dance and belly dance. Something creative is always cooking!)

Loving watsu, massage, partner yoga, acrobatics and Acro Yoga for the joy!

I'd love to connect with a complementary, conscious, and caring merman for creative cahoots, lasting partnership, and new dear friends too!

* Although I currently hang my hat in Lost Angeles and have for many moons, it doesn't own me. I'm open to the adventure. Nothing is tying me down! LA feels more like a base than a home.

I've had the privilege of growing up on my grandfather's land - farm and forest, in Pennsylvania, enjoying gardening and nature and would like to return to a GREENER, and RAINIER environment, sooner rather than later, and am out looking now.

If that all fits, please write.
What I’m doing with my life
Co-creating, thought and beauty provoking, inspiring, liberating, keeping and rediscovering traditions... Dancing, moving, building, designing, art making, performing, culture jamming. Adoring my beautiful, hand-made, fun-filled life!

I live for European paced days, love to work & create in the world, yet savor delicious meals, relish a siesta, dance a Hasapiko. I love ripe salted tomatoes from my garden, power tool projects, night-time skinny dipping, silent walks on snowy nights...
I’m really good at
Wicked come-backs.
Scintillating conversation.
Finding a way out of no way.
Hitting a straight lick with a crooked stick.
Singing in harmony.
Drawing up the plans.
Coming up with a better scheme.
Winning the costume contest.
Sinking the shot after never having played.
Dancing with pure abandon.

Shooting from the hip.
Calling it like I see it.
Cutting through the red tape.
Remembering the ancient traditions.
Finding the words that heal our contemporary confusion.

Speaking volumes without a word,
with just my hands and eyes.
The first things people usually notice about me
(I asked!):
Fellow curator: "Wonderfully creative...".
Local Sherriff: "She looks like a prima ballerina...".
Dance Patron: "Every part of her dances...."
Desirous poetic man: "She has eyes like deer...curves like a mermaid...".
Soul Sister: "Apertura y entrega total a la vida".
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Dance & Music: Traditional, Contemporary, Ambient, Electronic, Funk, Blues, Roma, Rai, Tunisian, Algerian, Afrobeat, Afro Brazilian/ Caribbean/ Haitian, Moroccan, Egyptian, Turkish, Andalusian, Transylvanian, Greek, Gypsy, Tanoura, Dervish, Russian, Georgian, Historical, Hula, Hokey Pokey, the Hustle! Aretha, Nina, Etta, Bessie, Emmylou. Pina Bauch. Whatever moves me.

Recommended Reading: Mario Martinez Mind Body Code, Joe Dispenza, Louise Hay, Robert Holden, Naomi Wolf, Harville Hendrix, Inanna Queen of Heaven and Earth: Her Stories and Hymns from Sumer, The Way of the Superior Man, My Side of the Mountain, Women Who Run with the Wolves,Tagore, Rumi, Mirabai, Hafiz, Neruda, Nin, Brezsny, Jung, Campbell, the I Ching. I love to read up on psychology, science, cosmology, physics, metaphysics, archaeology, anthropology, gender, neuropsycho-immunology, bio-cognition, and on and on...

Art: arte povera, street art, folk art, installation art, environmental art, public art, interactive art, temporary art, performance art, Indigenous art & architecture, artful gardens, eco art, elements of BRC, Wilmarth's glass orbs inspired by Mallarme, Banksy, Doris Salcedo's wardrobes, Marina Abramovic's crystal brooms, the yearning spaces and poignant details in Andrew Wyeth's works, humming colors in early Rothko's, and mysteries of Maya Deren, Akira Kurosawa, Jane Campion.
Art that is a gift, not an imposition.

Cuisine: French everything! Carbonara, bolanese, gnocchi, souvlaki, perogi, bulgoki... Turkish kofte, Moroccan chicken with pickled lemon and olives, Cajun Crab boils, Tartare, platanos maduros. Basil, parmesan, olive oil, red wine, repeat. Anything made with pleasure and love. I hope you are a BRILLIANT cook and want to make me fat (highly unlikely!) and happy!

Favorite outings, travels, moments:

New travels! with few repeats!
Roaming Powell's Books or SF's Brides of March, the Philae Temple or the Temple of Juno, steaming in a Turkish hamam or hot springs in the forests of Oregon, hiking the woods of Washington, Half Dome, or across a Roman aqueduct in the south of France, enjoying landscape, light and ancient architecture all over Italy, late night strolls through the colors of the Marigny, running barefoot in summer thunderstorms, sled riding, or making snow angels.

All of Italia, Switzerland, France, Britain. I adore the Rhone Valley and Cote d'Azure.

The remnants of Ancient Ottoman Empire, Persia, Greece, Rome, Egypt....

I've also done solo road & camping trips all over the US, 40 states or more, Mexico, and Canada, so enough with North America.

Travel is part of my bliss. An obvious part of my astrological chart, and perhaps yours if you know it well. Travel is a way to connect with my sense of being a global citizen and to nourish myself with difference. I'm not collecting travel trophies; I go out into the world to find our deep sense of interconnectedness and appreciate wild beautiful differences.

(For example, I adored visiting Montreal again in the beauty of Indian Summer. I'm somehow not mentally back yet... So hard to leave clean, green, tree lined streets, warm rain, tumultuous downpours and thunderstorms, cozy neighborhoods, considered aesthetics, preserved architecture, biking all over the city with ease, lovely parks, beauty, locavore businesses, community pride, cleanliness and the last gorgeous weeks of summer...
I miss dramatic weather and seasons...
More reasons to leave Los Angeles...
Any recommendations?
Six things I could never do without
Dance ecstasy & creating beauty.
Celebration, liberation, expansion.
Moonlight. Starlight.
Succulent food that makes me moan.
Elegant line & movement in art, dance, design, & music.
Travel that reminds me of the kindness, intelligence, and beauty of the world,
Relationships that make me laugh and LAUGH!!!
The wilderness, forests, and rain.
Love, the Erotic Arts & soulful sensuality.
Disregarding the (stogy cultural) rules...
I spend a lot of time thinking about
My next art pieces, designs, choreographies, travels. New decor and improvements for the yurt I built. No I don't live in it, but I could. temporarily...

The invisible world (scent, data, sensations, spirit, synchronicity, pleasure, desire, joy, dreams, ideas not yet birthed), our inter-woveness with the natural world, solutions to seemingly difficult dilemmas, bio-mimicry, sacred economics, kindness in communication, but less time thinking, and more time living.
On a typical Friday night I am
Rolling my eyes at 42 year-old sexist, cliché, ageist men
who will only date women ages 18 -39.

Or more likely

On any night for that and on any night, I may be creating, dreaming, soaking, shaking it, laughing, reading, writing, prowling the streets, roaming the hills, jumping bonfires, gazing at the cosmos, savoring it.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
Of course I'll wear impossibly tall sexy shoes for you, as long as you carry me around all night.
You should message me if
Nous ferions ensemble une belle Tish et Gomez.

You too are looking for a passionate, secure, fun-filled, lasting, ecstatic, contemporary, non-traditional (woman-positive) partnership, marriage and union, filled with love, nurturance, creativity, joy, wonderful communication, the arts, world travel, and both an urban /community and country/ forest life,


you would be paradise
to come home to.
The two of us