29 Allston, United States
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My self-summary
Sassy. Sexy. Short.

I write words about video games sometimes.

I'm interested in finding someone sincere, honest, and into ethical non-monogamy. I'm looking for people to be independently awesome with, together.

I'd also like to start living by Gene Rodenberry's principle of "not simply tolerating, but taking delight in our differences." I probably won't judge you based on one date.
What I’m doing with my life
Working on myself -- journaling, dealing with the fact that my feelings don't often reflect reality, trying to be confident and sincere, eliminating the obvious distractions in my life (e.g. the phone).

At 28 I'm starting to do some of the self-care things I should have been doing since childhood. I can be classy sometimes.

Dealing with the fact that I can't save the world alone or perhaps at all.

On my better days:
Job applications (yeah, the money's running out, but I'm starting to take more pride in the fact that I haven't compromised my principles for work.)
Out of shape due to a foot injury, but sincerely hoping I will be able to get back into Muay Thai.

Snuggling with a cat
Playing chess
Trying to recreate video game music on my keyboard
I’m really good at
Back rubs
Struggling with something new
Trying to weigh the pros and cons of any decision
The first things people usually notice about me
Probably the beard and crazy hair.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Video game music, hip hop, ... I'll try to listen to most stuff sincerely. I think I made myself hate pop music as a teenager and that wasn't right.

Drama: House, Breaking Bad, Firefly
Comedy: The Boondocks, Futurama, Metalocalypse
Other: Mythbusters, Avatar: The Last Airbender

Depends when you catch me. I go through a lot of different phases of cooking -- previously: japanese, thai, southern. I am in a weird sort of vegan limbo where I'm okay with eating animal products because I couldn't deal with the idea of having food restrictions for some reason. So I went to pescetarianism for a bit, but now I'm settling into veganism again. It's kind of hard for me to look at a meat product without thinking of the animal.
The six things I could never do without
- Regular exercise
- Honest discussion
- Sunny days (can't wait for the solstice)
- A small, loving animal companion
- Almond milk
- A journal
I spend a lot of time thinking about
"what am I doing with my life... oh wait, shit! Someone else is talking. Need to pay attention."
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
Both NDT's and Carl Sagan's Cosmos have caused me to cry.
You should message me if
If you're interested, you should probably message me honestly because getting ignored is frustrating. Promise I won't ignore you as long as you write something more than "hey".

- if you want someone to teach you how to box.
- if you like bikes, board games, or video games (mostly of the puzzle/strategy) variety.
- if you can hold a long conversation about an irrelevant topic.
- if you want someone to send you tons of cute cat pictures.