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My self-summary

Hi, my name is Jerome. ISFJ
Some Virgo traits that apply to me are reliability, modesty, meticulousness, and being overly reserved.
Year of the Dog traits that describe me best are honest, kind, cautious and loyal.

I was raised a Southern boy, on a farm with animals and such. The love of outdoors and animals is ingrained in me. I like to fish and camp. I live in the back woods of Eatonton, where I get no phone signal nor internet (I kinda like it that way, more time to read and write).

That being said:

I'm a BIG Geek, and I am very proud of it. I bask in a a love of games (Roleplaying, Video & Board), comics, books, anime, guns, etc. The ONLY sport I like is MMA, and a few Olympic sports. I've been to a few geek conventions and even cosplayed. I'm a writer. I've had my comic book published.

I am very shy. When I try to talk to new people, especially women, I get all flustered and bogged down with anxiety. Kind of like Raj on 'The Big Bang Theory'. But once I know someone, I open up.

(This my religious disclaimer. I don't discuss religion except with people I know and only when asked.)
I do believe in God. And that Jesus fellow. But I do not go to church. I do not preach. I do not judge. I think God is agape, pure love, and loves us all, flaws and all. I have friends from many religions and some without. I am a LBGT ally.

Some Odds and Ends:
I'm a cat guy. I am not into going to clubs; though I don't mind a pub then and again. I'm just started using Rosetta Stone to try and learn Spanish. I find tattoos to be a turn on. I've been to 6 States, but want to visit more. I really enjoy cooking. I have, cooked food that people have literally fought over.

I have reached a point in my life where I am lonely. I desire companionship.
I want someone to be with. I want someone that will be with me on good days, and even more so on bad ones. Someone who will talk with me when I'm sad, smile with me when I'm happy, laugh AT me when I'm being silly.
I want someone who is smart, quick with their wit and that I can geekout (play games, watch nerdy TV, Ren Fest, Geek Conventions) with.
I want someone to hold hands with when we walk, and someone who doesn't mind a good cuddle in front of the TV. I want someone to share my passions with, and who can become my passion.
What I’m doing with my life
I am currently working at a Library. I absolutely love my job. It gives me the joy of customer service; with none of the pain of pushy salesmanship. I love helping people find new things to read and even more so encouraging young people to develop a love of reading. I've taken the bull by the horns and have brought a lot of new ideas to my library. I hope to, one day in the near future, take over the managers position once my manager retires.

I'd like to go back to school, and maybe get a Library Sciences Degree. But honestly, It's not needed to become a manager in our library system. And Library Manager is my main goal at this point.

I try to spend as much time as I can with my friends. My friends, I feel, help make me who I am; you are the company you keep. Each of my friends has a way of making me feel like a smarter, cooler and an all around better person.
I’m really good at
Cooking. I normally don't use recipes, when I do I alter the recipe; I'll add this, take away that and add 10lbs more garlic (exaggeration, mostly).
Favorites that I've ever made are:
Mango Chutney Stuffed Pork Loin &
Hot Wings (see the garlic comment above).

I'm good at learning Board and Card games. I pick up the rules fairly quickly. A single hand or round and I've usually got the gist. (Okay, that's a corny one...whatever)

I'm fairly adept at most things tech, I cannot build a computer, but give me 10 minutes or so and I can normally have a competent understanding of an OS for PC, tablet, phone or most other programs.
The first things people usually notice about me
That I'm not your average size guy. It's my struggle, but I'm trying (Update 8/21/16, I am down 34lbs).
But because of my stature I have been refereed to as "Teddy Bear" or "Hug Toy".
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
The Dresden Files and The Aeronaut's Windlass by Jim Butcher; Staked, Revamped & Crossed by J. F. Lewis; American Gods by Neil Gaiman; Deadpool; Batman: Hush by Jeph Loeb; The Virgil Cole Series by Robert B. Parker; Ms. Marvel (Earth-616) by Sana Amanat I FREAKING LOVE THIS STORYLINE; Where the Sidewalk Ends by Shel Silverstin; Edger Allen Poe, Genshiken by Shimoku Kio; Who Censored Rodger Rabbit, Zom-B series by Darren Shan, Batman: Year One and Sin City by Frank Miller; The Testing by Joelle Charbonneau, Ai Yori Aoshi by Kou Fumizuki; John Green. YA, Dystopia, Sci-Fi, Urban Fantasy (but not High Fantasy, sorry to disappoint).
I have a love affair with Detective stories.

Fight Club, Nightmare on Elm Street, Låt den rätte komma in, Friday the 13th, The Goonies, The Lord of the Rings, Hairspray [old & new], Cry-Baby, Jason Statham Movies, Reno 911!: Miami, Stardust, Shooter, Snatch, Brotherhood of the Wolf, Lara Croft Tomb Raider, RENT, Jackass: The Movie, Gangster Squad, True Grit [old & new], Mirror Mask, No Country for Old Men, Serenity, Shawshank, The Batman movies, 12 Monkeys, Sin City, My Fair Lady, Scott Pilgrim vs. The World, Kick-Ass. Guy Ritchie movies. The Big Labowski. I enjoy Disney, Dreamworks and Pixar movies. Beauty and the Beast is my all time Favorite Disney movie. I have a special love affair with zombie movies. Obviously most movies based on comic books. Movies with Simon Pegg. Most Quentin Tarantino films. And so many more, I'd Never be able to list them all.

RPG's: Mage, Vampire, Scion, Changling, Star Wars, Firefly, Dresden Files.
Card Games: Legendary Marvel & DC Deck Builders, Chez Geek, Munchkin, Love Letter, Sushi Go, Flux.
Board Game: Dead of Winter, Sheriff of Nottingham, Dixit, House on the Hill, The Resistance. (not Monopoly)
Video Games: Metal Gear Solid, Batman Arkham series, Final Fantasy, Uncharted, Tekken (not really good at it), GTA, Fallout (3&NV), Star Wars: Unleashed. The Last of Us is probably the greatest game made to date.

Blues, classical, jazz, metal, rock, opra, bluecrass, some techno.
Jimis Hendrix, Stevie Ray Vaughn, Led Zepplin, Nina Simone Eric Clapton, The Doors, Madeleine Peyroux, Ozzy, Sister Sin, Velvet Revolver, Zaz, Wes Montgomery, Django Reinhardt, Robert Johnson, Eartha Kitt Paramour. My most used CD is the RENT soundtrack.
No offense to anyone, I despise Country, and loath Rap.
Though in the last year or so, my radios have played mostly Audio Books instead of music. And I also dig a few Podcasts.

DR. WHO; Dresden Files; Arrow; Good Eats; Hell's Kitchen; The Flash; Master Chef; LOST; The Strain; Bones; Heroes; Fruits Basket; Star Wars: The Clone Wars; Chobits; Ai Yori Aoshi; Cowboy Bebop; Torchwood; The Walking Dead; Penny Dreadful; Robot Chicken; Family Guy, The Venture Bros.; Z Nation; CSI, Law & Order: SVU; Mission Hill; Baby Blues; Paranoia Agent; Farscape; Samurai Champloo; Castle; Futurama; Trigun, Firefly; Star Wars: Rebels. And many many others.

I'll try ANYTHING once. I love hot foods. I love most foods (hence my weight problem). Favorites are Italian, Cajun and Creole (yes there is a difference), Greek. I love the flavor profile of Chicken Vindaloo, Palak Paneer and Naan. But my all time favorite food is Japanese food. Sushi is my Ambrosia.

All these lists are short and compacted, there is not enough room to list ALL my favorites.
Six things I could never do without
6: A Vehicle
5: My hard as rock feather pillow.
4: A fan (ceiling or osolating)
3: A Kitchen & equipment
2: My Geekdoms (see "Favorites")
1: Friends & Family

Six things I Could do without:

6: Top 40 music stations
5: Spoilers
4: Close minded-ness
3: Temperatures above 75 degree
2: Spiders
1: All spiders
I spend a lot of time thinking about
It depends on the day.
Sometimes it's about friends, movies, food and Life. Other times it about loneliness, heartbreak, religion and prose. Some day's it's not thinking, it's just action; doing my job, driving home, watching some tube and going to sleep. Other nights it's about nothing more then the awesome distance to the nearest star. I have ADHD so my thoughts tend to wonder...Ohhh, a butterfly...... ummm, where was I?
On a typical Friday night I am
Home alone. Readin, Gaming...Sleeping.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I say nay, nay. Read all of the above. Anything more is spoilers.
You should message me if have any questions, comments, likes. If you want to catch a movie. If you'd like to go have dinner or play some board/card/video games. If you think my profile looks interesting. Or if you just want someone to talk to or simply someone hang out with.

Honestly though, I'm really shy, so I very rarely message first.
The two of us