57Knoxville, United States
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My self-summary
Articulate, extremely honest, direct, conversational, personable and private, confident yet circumspect, independent, sophisticated when an occasion is required, versatile, simple minded, serious minded, unassuming, dedicated, driven, detailed oriented, enthusiastic with most things, logical and practical but will throw a curve when least expected and not always predictable, quick witted, silly, spunky, with a vibrant disposition.

I'm a blue eyed blonde with long natural curly hair of average stature, frequently under guessed on age and weight, and a lady. The picture I have posted was taken spring 2016. I've often been told I'm a pleasant surprise, fun to be around and I could continue this list, most good, very little not so good and all be right on target but I'll let you be the judge. I march to a different beat of anyone I know and decided I may have been born in the wrong decade perhaps the wrong century! (lol) I strive to be the best person with all things although not always successful yet never give up trying, firmly believe in treating others the way I would want and always truthful even if it is not a positive reflection on myself with the opinions from others that I'm too honest or honest to a fault. Although always honest I do know when discretion and/or diplomacy are imperative without compromising integrity and truth. I believe honesty is the cornerstone of building trust, character, sincerity, confidence, reliability, credibility, respect; in short integrity. I expect the same attitudes and positive thinking from others, no less than what I myself will and can deliver.

FAIR WARNING: If you are looking for friends with benefits, no strings attached scenarios, open relationships, an uncommitted pursuer look elsewhere. I am ONLY interested in A serious minded compatiable well balanced intelligent polite true gentleman. Additionally, if you have not put a considerable effort into your profile it leaves an impression that you will not put forth the effort it takes into a relationship and I will have no interest.
What I’m doing with my life
I'm a work in progress as we all should be. Since the beginning of this millennium I've been focusing on rebuilding my life independently from a catastrophic set of circumstances beyond my control that would have driven most women over the edge. I have eclipsed some extraordinary hurdles, accomplished a couple of major goals during a recessed/oppressed economy but have yet to realize my greatest ambition. I've come to a crossroad recently that I feel I'm ready emotionally to cease my vault door and allow a special gentleman into my life that is willing to embrace me as I am, where I currently stand and share laughter, love and life without the superficial and pressured, with a profound depth and with a common desired aim of moving forward together utilizing the K.I.S.S. acronym.
I’m really good at
most anything I set my mind to accomplish or do
The first things people usually notice about me
smile, hair and eyes then my directness and honesty
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
I have a wide range of interests that are endless, from the most simple and innocent to the unexpected and complex. A small sample of my favorite activities are billiards, boating, dancing, flying, motorcycling, museums and site seeing. My music tastes are equally varied although rap and country are not included. Love smooth jazz, classic rock, 60s to early 80s, R&B, Motown, disco to big band, swing, easy listening, classical and just about any instrumental. Movies and shows also range from comedies, romantic comedies, adventure, musicals, dance, Broadway, symphonies to anything non fiction. Gone with the Wind and Titanic are tied as favorites. Favorite movie comedy is My Cousin Vinny. I additionally love documentaries and anything educational especially relating to history of any kind. Favorite foods would include Chinese, Japanese, seafood, steaks and Persian cuisine.
Six things I could never do without
1. Faith
2. Honesty
3. Passion
4. Integrity
5. My eyes to see with
6. cell phone, an unfortunate necessity (primarily for work and wake up alarms) and a tool I believe is often rude to use while in the company of others.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
My mind is always pondering about anything and everything, going a mile a minute and often wondering if the gentleman suitable for me will cross paths and recognize I am the one, his equal and soulmate.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I shower at least once a day.
You should message me if
you live within 45 min. distance, single as in NOT married or separated or girlfriend, nor divorced within the last 4 yrs., serious minded with finding a compatible mate, articulate, well mannered and polite, honest and trustworthy, well groomed, diverse, exceptional communication and interpersonal skills, old schooled, perceptive, confident, patient, witty, fit or reasonably fit, healthy, a youthful spirit, nonsmoker, tobacco free, drug free, over 90% match, preferably under 6 foot tall, must be OVER 48, and would like to find a lady of equal integrity and substance for a long term monogamous relationship without pressure that strives for fun, growth, sharing similar and same interests, exploring new things and ideas, allowing each to their diversity and with balance where honesty, trust, fidelity, communication, compromise, confidentiality, passion, dedication, and respect are the bedrock. Strictly friendship will be considered.

IF however you are an exception in that your inner character and beliefs mirror mine then you should take a chance and contact me.

BONUS: If you love dancing, skilled, and need a consistent dance partner especially if ballroom and would like to teach a capable dancer and/or a former disco king whether as strictly friends or compatible mates then I would be interested in you contacting me.
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