36 Endicott, United States
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My self-summary
Ok, I'm totally open and honest and never hide anything. If you want to know something just ask. I'm open minded and have an off the wall sense of humor. I tend to see the world and people differently from others. I'm a bit of a dork and nerd. I like to go out when I can but don't really do the bar thing to well unless it's somewhere that I'm use to like Bobby's in Endwell, I don't mix in crowds to well for some reason..lots of people in a small space tends to get on my nerves and then I see stupidity and honestly have no tolerance for stupidity.I cook for a living at Phil's Chicken House.I take my life a step at a time and see where it leads, don't ask about my plans...I'm not the type to make plans..that would make things way to easy. But there is a promising chance to chase a dream this tear, so if I can I will be running after it.

I'm beginning to make small changes in my life to better it. Such as starting to smoke an ecig and at the very least quit smoke real ones. I bike a ton, working on loosing weight and changing the way I eat.... IT turns out eating more then two or three times a week is actually good for you! Lol. Did I mention I'm a bit of a smartass?

I'm getting tired of the single life to put it bluntly but hey, what can you do when you won't settle for just anyone?

I'm very caring.... so much to the point I've been told it's almost a fault.... I can see that since I'm very protective of the people I love and care about and have no shame in making it known.

I have no kids of my own but I do have amazing nieces and nephews that I love more then anything. I want kids someday but again, I'm not just settling for anyone and I will not play the bullshit games of having a baby mama. I want kids someday but I will wait.

I love to write. It's my outlet for everything I feel or go threw but happiness. I wear my happiness like a badge while I deal with everything else alone.I like it that way. I write and everything comes pouring it. My writings have been read by few and always have had the same shocked and worried reaction from the people that have read them, so I just put the notebook away and leave it be until it's needed again. I've gone back and read a lot of my older writings and understand the reactions but I rather have all that twisted and ugly stuff stuck on paper rather then having it build up inside of me and have it explode.

I have no clue where I'm going, but I know where I have been. I have no regrets, but will never go back. I guess that's it, like I said before feel free to ask me anything.

I am honest, blunt, and a bit of an asshole and a total freak and I'm happy and proud of who I am. It's been a hell of a long road to reach this point but I have no regrets of the road I walked and the lessons I've learned.
What I’m doing with my life
Cooking and feeding the masses! Yay baby! Reading, playing magic and just finding ways to make people smile and happy.
Working 50 plus hours and loving every minute.
I’m really good at
Cooking, reading, being a dork and an asshole, making people smile and laugh. Giving massages. I went to college for a little while to be a massage therapist. Listening and talking and honestly cuddling. won't lie, I love to cuddle.
The first things people usually notice about me
No clue, not really the guy who sticks out in a crowd. Maybe my can be really loud and annoying.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Mostly anything mystery or having to do with vampire and werewolves and what not.

As for Music I listen to a lot of hard rock and metal ...Korn, Mudvayne,Tool, Staind, Shinedown, 10 Years, Deftones, Aerosmith...I love those guys!! I also have a rather strong fondness of ICP...Insane Clown Posse for people who have never heard of them. I know they're not for most people but I'm far from being like other people.

As for food...I am a cook I normally try anything at least once, I tend to have a very weird taste and won't really get into it.
The six things I could never do without
Family, Friends, Music.....other than those three not to sure would make me freak out and lose it if it was gone. Everything goes at some point.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Where the hell am I going and what the hell will happen on the way there.
On a typical Friday night I am
Working hard running in circles cooking food as well as running the buffet as well as baking and taking care of anything else that gets thrown my way.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I can be a bit of a mush once someone gets close enough to show that side I keep guarded.... I've been hurt more then enough for this life time.

My favorite quote is, "I'm not the man of your dreams and I never can be. I am merely flesh and blood so what I can be is the man of your life as well as the love of your life."
You should message me if
You want to talk, or if you just want to be random, or if for some odd reason you really want to get to know me.