44Oakland, United States
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My self-summary
Soft spoken, with a naughty sense of humor. Balanced, could be engaging in out of home activities one day, relaxing in house the next. Dine out, concert, movie date one weekend; and homecooked dinner, netflix in bed the next. I strive for balance, moreso than perfection. A firm believer in communication with a spectrum of interests. Amateur photographer, an aspiring graphic artist, my new passion. Comfortble trying new things, meeting different people(s )on our plan et. Well travelled, would love to do more.

In one word, I'm a Rasmantic(no, I'm not a Rastafarian), that's an invitation for you to inquire about it's description.
The first things people usually notice about me
Usually in this order:
*my hair
*my lips
*my smile
*my New York/Caribbean accent
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Music: Reggae, Hip/Hop, Salsa, Jazz, R&B, Calypso, Rock, Electronica, Rock

Books: Then We Heard Thunder-John O Killens; Jubilee-Margrette Walker; I do a lot of reading, especially while commuting to work

Movies: I love foreign Indies. I love movies with compelling scripts and character development. Goofy comedies and classics. I'm big on natural and political documentaries

Foods: Caribbean, Asian. I am not a vegetarian/vegan, but more a fishatarian, with an occasional chicken. I rarely eat red meat, never pork. However, I'm not one of those who make a big deal about what others eat.
On a typical Friday night I am
Off from work, usually spending time with my son. On the occasions I do go out, usually dinner or a movie. I rarely "club", unless it's to a reggae club.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
Ask me that in private. It will make you blush, I promise.
You should message me if
...these simple ideals pique an interest:

#1. Go to bed at the same time.
#2. Cultivate common interests.
#3. Walk hand in hand or side by side
#4. Make trust and forgiveness your default mode.
#5. Focus more on what your partner does right than what he or she does wrong.
#6. Hug each other as soon as you see each other after work.
#7. Say “I love you” and “Have a good day” every morning
#8. Say “Good night” every night, regardless of how you feel.
#9. Do a “weather” check during the day.
#10. Be proud to be seen with your partner.
The two of us