Sabo_Tabby
28 Panorama City, United States
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My self-summary
Be aware before reading: I'm polyamorous so that should be considered when scoping me.

I'm not just open to romantic partners, I'm also happy to expand my circle of friends. If you get a message from me and we're wildly incompatible, chances are good I'm not cruising for a date. Best bet is to just ask what I'm up to.

A direct approach works best with me pretty much across the board. If something is on your mind, tell me. If you're curious about something, ask me. Just be subtle as a T-Rex and we'll get along fine.
What I’m doing with my life
I dunno, what is anyone doing with their lives anymore?

Politics is a big part of my world; if time spent with radical leftist isn't your thing then you may want to move on. I spent a very limited time with Occupy and I have taught classes for medics who accompany protests and other activist actions. If politics isn't your thing, that's cool just understand it's a big part of my world.

My "afford rent job" is with a non-profit as a counselor for adults with special needs in Santa Monica teaching life-skills (if you're one of the residents and reading this, congrats you found me, now go do your cleaning). I also do some freelance home and computer repair on the side.

The list of things I'm involved with has gotten so long and it changes regularly. I'm more than happy to talk about anything I'm doing at any given time.

- I build bows for archery. I'm currently toeing into using carbon fiber as well as experimenting with the materials and construction to adjust the weight and draw for different shooters. It's quite a bit of fun. If you'd like your own bow, let me know; materials are less than $10 and it's a fun afternoon project.

- A lot of legal research pertaining to a project to secure more permanent housing. In the same vein, I'm a FOIA nerd so I'm usually babysitting one or two requests at any given time.

- Looking for a place to start growing things again. I kind of hate living in the concrete jungle sometimes. If you've got some open ground and like plants, let me know.

- Writing a polyamory-centered romance screenplay. What? It's LA. Are you *really* that surprised?

- I'm working to start a not-for-profit to refurbish computers for low-income residents. This is a fucking gargantuan task and if you want to lend a hand, I'm all for the help.
I’m really good at
going back to Home Depot five times in two days because I miscalculated the size and number of bolts that I needed. -headdesk-
The first things people usually notice about me
Physically, I really couldn't say. I tend to dress a little odd; workboots with a leather welding jacket (weather permitting) does tend to draw some stares. Other than that I'd assume not much particularly sticks out about me but I'd rather know your answer to that.

There are two key considerations with me. Take these into account carefully.

The first is this
pastebin.com/7ExNPRt3

This is a good reflection of how I look at the world.

The second is I tend to live by the idea that "no one has ever, when facing death, wished they'd spent more time at work and less time doing the things they wanted to do with the people they loved."

If these two ideas are acceptable and appealing, we will probably get along just fine.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Way too many books to list and I constantly rotate my collection. I favor non-fiction pretty heavily; it's hard to overstate my determination to learn new things, It borders on an obsession thus my mainstay for reading is non-fiction. I have an e-book library that is, by now, probably in the tens of thousands.

With movies my tastes are hard to predict. I enjoy a lot of international and some more "off the wall" films. I do also watch a lot of documentaries. The international cut of "Red Cliffs" (2008) was great, "Blade Runner" (1982) total classic, "Last Samurai" (2003) minus Tom Cruise (why is a white dude "the last samurai"?), "Yojimbo" (1961) another classic worth watching, "Sexy Evil Genius" (2013) great character film and also fills in some of my "off the wall" preference and similarly "Circle" (2015), the two main characters aside "Jupiter Ascending" (2015) was solid sci-fi, "This Is Spinal Tap" (1984) is hilarious especially if you know a little about rock and roll history.

I don't have many TV shows I'm into because I don't have cable but I did get really into Alphas, Walking Dead, Firefly, Terra Nova, Rome, Vikings, and Outcasts.

My musical taste is impossible to present with any degree of brevity or cohesiveness. You probably wont like most of it and that's OK.

A few sample tracks:
Track One The Casualties - Corazones Intoxicados Corregido
Track Two The Casualties - Soldado
Track Three Rachid Taha - Ya Rayah
Track Four Ryan Harvey - I Won't Be Part Of It
Track Five Arabic Orthodox Hymn
Track Six Eisenfunk - Skudrinka
Track Seven Crucified Barbra - The Crucifier
Track Eight Sister Sin - One Out Of Ten
Track Nine GBH - Timebomb
Track Ten Groupe Badar - Allah Wastajib
Track Eleven Percival - Jomsborg
Track Twelve Garmarna - Gamen
Track Thirteen Finsterforst - Mach Dich Frie (Make Yourself Free)
Track Fourteen GBH - Sick Boy
Track Fifteen The Revels - Rolling Down to Old Maui
Track Sixteen The Wolfgangs - Cannibal Family
Track Seventeen Seaside Rebels - Abandon Ship

Food is also a mix (-rimshot-) though I do have a fairly restricted diet due to health issues (I cannot eat dairy, nuts, beans, or soy) but I still eat well. I rarely eat out (eating out with food allergies is balls) but I'm not against a good meal at a place I know wont attempt to poison me.

Games
I do game on the PC (not as much as I used to). What I play rotates but Minecraft, Path of Exile, and Warframe are some constants. I do get into RTS games as well. Not really a WoW player, sorry.
The six things I could never do without
Ginger. I fucking love ginger. I'll give you one guess how many times I've heard the "a ginger who likes ginger" jokes. Go on. Guess.

Something to read or a project to work on. I'm kind of like a puppy when I get bored. Not in the "awww you're adorable!" way, more in the "why did you destroy that?" kind of way.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
"Did I water the plants this morning?"
On a typical Friday night I am
If it's not already abundantly clear, I'm somewhat of an introvert (though I don't have trouble with social anxiety). I do enjoy getting out and spending time outside but I need a little quiet recharge time after being out and around.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
My brain doesn't function quite the same way as most other brains as I have dyscalculia.

It isn't something immediately noticeable until I get handed a math problem or have to read an analog clock. I will probably at some point ask you some bonehead math question that a six year old would be able to answer.
You should message me if
-If you are polyamorous, poly-friendly, or just curious. I kind of love talking about poly so if you want to ask questions I am more than game. I'm also pretty much impossible to shock or embarrass so don't be shy if you're curious about something really juicy.

-If you're looking for a tabletop gaming buddy. I'm down for most games, doubly so if it's Shadowrun or Legend of the Five Rings. Matsu!

-You're curious about any of the projects I'm doing and want to know more or want to collaborate on something.

You should NOT message me if:
-You want someone to bar-hop or club with. If you want to go, more power to you, not my scene.

-You have no passions; if you hate everything, everyone, and everywhere, if looking at a basket of cross-eyed kittens does nothing to you, if nothing at all makes your heart pound and your breathing pick up.....don't message me. The world is a fucking vast place, there is no reason other than spite to find ALL of it dis-interesting.

-You're half a world away. I'm sorry, I'm looking for someone local. I'm not interested in LDRs. Best of luck to you.

You made it to the end, congrats. If you read the whole thing but still didn't find it to your liking, I still want to leave you with something for being awesome willing to read the whole thing. Enjoy! (Mobile app users, this link won't show up for you but take heart in the fact that you're a good person for being willing to read this far or if you just -have- to have that endorphin rush, manually type into your browser tinyurl.com/3n5kmdw )
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