Sofserv
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My self-summary
I like to think of myself as a fundamentally good guy. I've never tried to hurt anyone on purpose, I try to give everyone a chance. I can get along with pretty much anyone. I was raised with a very strong belief in charity and compassion. I give as much as I possibly can, even if it is just a random compliment to a stranger. Anything to put a smile on someone's face.

I have an unhealthy obsession with literature.

I try to give myself fully to whatever inspires me, be it art, literature, music, film, etc.

Most attractive feature in a man: passion.
Least attractive feature in a man: arrogance.
What I’m doing with my life
I teach 8th grade English. It is both rewarding and infuriating at the same time. Ultimate goal is a PhD (only degree left!) and teaching at the collegiate level.
I’m really good at
Memorizing song lyrics. Making bloody marys.
The first things people usually notice about me
Probably my height and/or size, but hopefully my smile.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
A)Books: Anything by JD Salinger, Ian McEwan, Sylvia Plath, Augusten Burroughs, Viriginia Woolf, and Kurt Vonnegut. Wuthering Heights, The Virgin Suicides, The Hours (favorite of all time), A Density of Souls, White Teeth, The Coquette, The Perks of Being a Wallflower. Honestly, FAR too many to list.

B)Movies: The Hours, Moulin Rouge, Chicago, Dancer in the Dark, Almost Famous, American Beauty, Being John Malkovich, Eyes Wide Shut, Go, Saved, Thirteen, Who's Afraid of Virginia Woolf?, A Streetcar Named Desire, Transamerica, La Vie en Rose

C)Music: Tori Amos, Alanis Morissette, Fiona Apple, Rufus Wainwright, Kate Bush, Garbage, No Doubt, Ani DiFranco, PJ Harvey, The Cranberries, The Killers, Depeche Mode, Fleetwood Mac, Bjork, Blondie, Cat Stevens, Damien Rice, Jeff Buckley, Jewel, Joni Mitchell, Liz Phair, Rilo Kiley, Neil Young, Placebo, Portishead, Rasputina, Ryan Adams, Sarah McLachlan, Sheryl Crow, Nellie McKay, M.I.A. Again, FAR TOO MANY TO LIST>

D)Foods: Mexican, Italian, sushi.
Six things I could never do without
1. Car (I live in a metro area, come on now...)

2. Poetry (My life would be empty without it)

3. Friends (What would I do with my time?)

4. Family (My everything)

5. Live music (Feeds my soul)

6. Allergy medication (Snot is NOT sexy!)
I spend a lot of time thinking about
If I'm being honest, lately I have been thinking a lot about my true vision for the future. I have spent a lot of years focusing on education and work, and putting my love life on hold. Now, I am starting to realize that if I want love in my life, I have to put myself back out there.
On a typical Friday night I am
Having dinner with my family and then cueing up something on Netflix. I am usually dead by the end of the week, so . . .
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
One of my guilty pleasures in life is to watch LGBTQ coming-of-age movies or love stories and having a good cry . . .
You should message me if
You are looking for friendship, laughter, a book suggestion, love, lust, a sympathetic ear to listen, someone to see a live show with, or all of the above.
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