If you're into labels: ENFP (Myers Briggs), 3w4 (Enneagram), Ravenclaw.
Did I mention laughing? Kissing.
Movies: I went to film school. I am somehow not a movie snob, but I can articulate what I love and hate about films. I'm attached to the medium, not its genres.
Shows: Mindy. Shonda. Comics. Issa.
Music: Can I dance to it? Can I write to it? Is it being performed in front of me? Does my niece like to sing it? I'll listen.
Books: I was born to a woman who turned the page of a book the way some people caress the face of a newborn. Currently reading: Yaa Gyasi's Homegoing.
A balance of hard work, recognition, and critical feedback.
Or HH with my colleagues. Or a wedding.
You know how to clean a plate.
You know how to hang with all different kinds of folks.
You are sex-positive.
You are a kind, communicative person.
You used to live in Philadelphia.
You smell good.
You are not new: to the city, to being out, to being an adult.
I generally (and genuinely) love women who can make decisions, are extremely independent, have life long friends, and can speak about their past with kindness and insight.
**Not interested in the following: jungle fever fetishes, rape fantasies, threesomes with your boyfriend, outings in loud bars, #AllLivesMatter debates, hotep politicking, picky eaters *due to taste, not illness,* basic grumpy or negative people. I'm here to have fun and spread love.
Last note: whether it's with a lover, a partner, a friend, etc, I am uninterested in sub/dom roles (as a relationship characteristic, not necessarily a sexual one). I want to be around my equal, complimentary person. I'm not going to order you around and I don't want to be ordered around.