I try not to take anything for granted. I find respect and kindness towards others to be a pretty attractive trait. I'm not spiritual but I do think there is a connection with others that stems from being on this planet together.
Besides that stuff... I play the drums (I need to get out to some of the open blues jams), do a lot of cooking and experimenting in the kitchen, and listen to endless amounts of podcasts and music.
Things that keep me sane... family, friends, good music, good food, a good view.
I also think a lot about advancements in science and tech, social issues, economic issues, music/movies/television.
If I'm not staying in, I might be at a friends cooking dinner, meeting up with people downtown or down the street.
I don't like standing around in a bar. If I'm going out it's because I want to spend time talking with friends not to pound drinks until I can't stand up.
I have found the first two to be a difficult combination for way more people than I expected...