39Bessemer, United States
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My self-summary
I just moved to Bessemer and I know absolutely no one (outside of family). A handsome tour guide is what I desire, but I have a feeling that the Universe has something very interesting in store for me..and you too :)

Do you want to connect on a cosmic level? I'm enjoying this spiritual journey that I am experiencing. This new, brighter, joyous, happier, more loving, and positive way of thinking has totally changed what I would like to attract and manifest in my life.

This much is the same: I am a very driven, strong, ambitious, determined yet soft, caring, and sensitive woman. I'm a Cancer, what can I say??? I have smooth caramel toned skin, thick black hair, brown eyes, and a few hidden tattoos. I've never been the type to wear make-up (I do wear gloss daily, mascara every now and then), and this is because I am quite comfortable with myself. Now, please do not get confused...I'm comfortable with myself, but that is not to say that I do not keep myself up. I love being pampered in every way and I treat myself at least twice a month.

I am a four times published author, and a freelance writer. I love life and everything is it has to offer...I am just missing the man to enjoy it with. I know exactly what I want and what I like. I find it easy to talk to strangers, but I can become shy if I like someone. I have a huge family and a great circle of friends (all of which have been my friends for 10+ years). And I absolutely adore my son!

I love men that are strong, driven, and have a zeal for life. A man that can be a lion when needed, but is gentle and tender with me. A man that has a successful career, financially stable, a car, and resides by himself (unless he is raising his child). I only ask these things because I bring the same to the table. A man that has one child or less (Two max. if you're an awesome guy). Men with crazy baby mothers need not apply. I am looking for a man to spoil me in every way possible, because I intend to do the same.

I am also a certified travel agent and I love to travel and experience new foods, new people, cultures, music, and atmosphere. I crave warm, sunny weather and will vote for the next presidential candidate that will make it law to hibernate during cold winter months ;) I love natural beauty, photography, and art. I like to watch different sports, but I seem to enjoy it more if I have a man to watch with. I enjoy the outdoors and activities such as horseback riding, jet skiing, picnicing, star gazing, long intimate conversations, riding 4-wheelers. This is a small list, but there is so much more I would love to experience.

I am affectionate, sensual, sensitive, giggly, and caring. I practice kickboxing, yoga, and belly dancing to stay in shape. I like to meditate and strive to ascend to a higher level of knowledge and consciousness. I am a heat miser, so I love snuggling, kissing, holding hands, and almost anything that creates closeness and body heat ;) I love a man that can me smile, has a great sense of humor, and knows how to please a woman in every way. A man with great hygiene and knows how to handle himself in all situations. A man that knows what it means to be a true gentleman, and is romantic as well. Someone who can think and express himself with ease and is comfortable around people of all walks of life.

Does skin color matter to me??? No, but a man with a loving heart does.
What I’m doing with my life
Constantly asking the Universe what my purpose in life is, what can I do to help humanity, how can I have a profound positive impact on someone today?
I’m really good at
Writing, connecting, cooking, cuddling, laughing, organizing, pampering, nurturing, listening, and shopping for shoes!!!!! I love entertaining family and friends, eating, listening to music, and just having fun. Spreading positive energy, admiring the beauty of all this is!
The first things people usually notice about me
Is my smile. I love to smile and have a great time. I think I was born in the wrong era, because I would have totally loved being a hippie...Love, Peace, and Happiness, Baby!!!!
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
I love, love, love to read and most recently, I have been reading books based on spirituality, happiness, and self improvement. I'm not big on romantic movies, but I love horror, action, guns, and gore! The more the better!!! I also enjoy comedies. I love music of all genres and relish in listening to music live. A man that is talented musically could easily steal my heart ;) I believe that life is too short to deny myself any pleasure, including food! I do not like fish, but I always willing to try new things.
Six things I could never do without
1. The Universe
2. My Son
3. Food
4. Laughter
5. Meditation
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Expanding my consciousness...tapping into the source of infinite knowledge, love joy, peace, happiness, and prosperity.
On a typical Friday night I am
Reading, writing, visualizing the fabulous future that lies ahead.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
Wouldn't you like to know ;)
You should message me if
You are looking for a new friend (and I don't mean casual "hook-ups"). Or if you are a strong man that knows how to be gentle with me and is not afraid of affection. A man that is not afraid of life, love, and the pursuit of all of the happiness that can be found within it! If you believe that a man should be a man and encompass me as such. You should message me if you are a free thinker, positive, and can make me should message me because you may just miss out on the best thing that ever happened to you ;)
The two of us