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My self-summary
I had a well thought out, well written summary but apparently it was not appealing to many of you. Such is life.

In a nutshell what everyone wants. Simplicity, trust and honesty, happy ever after. There are many avenues that lead to that point. I wonder what our journey would look like?
What I’m doing with my life
Trying to reinvent my life again.

Besides that I spend most of my free time with my children. They are my greatest inspiration and motivation and I learn more from them than I have learned from any class, book, or teacher that I have ever had.
I’m really good at
Juggling my many responsibilities to my children and work. I'm not so good at taking care of responsibilities towards myself at times but I'm working on it.
The first things people usually notice about me
I have no idea.... Probably that I need a shave and that I look somewhat disheveled.

Someone once told me I have nice hands.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Way too long of a question to answer.

I have varied interests and like a broad spectrum of all of these things. I'm always willing to be exposed to new things.

I don't read as much as I would like and could use some book suggestions. I have read more kids books in the last 9 years than adult ones. I guess that goes for music, movies, and tv as well.

See I told you I need some adult interaction.
The six things I could never do without
The only thing I can't live without at this point is my children. After a divorce you pretty much lose everything you ever worked and strived for... Well at least in my case. I'm not angry or bitter about it, I realized how unimportant so much of what we cling to is.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Wondering if an honest and mutually giving relationships actually exists or if I just make super shitty choices in who I fall for.

That and hoping to find someone who wants what I want, just to be happy without bullshit, fighting, or drama. Two people who just want to enjoy being with each other.

Is a 45 year old man with children considered datable and if not at least fuckable? Come on... I'm a man after all, I would be lying if I said sex isn't on my mind.
On a typical Friday night I am
I'm actually free on Friday nights but tend to be a bit of an introvert. I'll just decompress from the week unless I have something or someone I want to do. 😏
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I'm pretty open actualy. Just ask me whatever you want. I'm not embarrassed, ashamed, or regretful of anything that I have done or that has happened in my life.
You should message me if
You want to talk to / hang out with someone who is genuine.

I'm not into games or bullshit.

I'm not going to lie to you about anything, what good ever becomes of that?

You want something casual or possibly serious. I'm happy with either.