Spiccato
28 Sunnyvale, United States
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My self-summary
I'm a fun, zany, energetic, sometimes a little too crazy girl who's looking for a date. I'm poly, and really enjoying it. My husbandOpenguy1 and I have been happily with each other for... oh since forever. We have been poly for the last 7 years or so, and it finally feels like we're really getting the hang of it. The more I explore the clearer I am in what I'm aiming for. I'm looking for new friends who understand nonmonogamy, or to date with a low key arrangement, possibly more if we really connect. I also prefer to see people who are already in a happy, healthy and functioning poly relationship.
I'm a new mom. Its intense and I think about it constantly. I'm especially excited to meet and connect with other parents.
What I’m doing with my life
Parenting. Nurse, change, nap, eat, sleep repeat. When I get a few extra minutes to myself I love to cook, or soak in the hot tub or garden or run. Not so very long ago I worked as a dental assistant and loved it. A bit before that I taught violin and that was cool too. Sometimes people ask me when/if I'm going back to work. Its open ended right now and I don't even know how to predict my future feelings about that. I've never been so in the present as I am right now. I'll think about the future when its closer.
I’m really good at
Trying new things. Every week I'm on the hunt for something new fun and out there. Wild food, circus tricks and god knows what.
I'm also good at filling awkward gaps in conversations, and sometimes making them too :P
The first things people usually notice about me
My wild blond hair, and how much i talk.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
I never read this in other peoples profiles so I'm not going to respond. I think this is good stuff to chat about during a first date, so why give it away?
The six things I could never do without
#1 My husband
#2 My dogs baby
#3 Hot water
#4 jeans
#5 Coffee
#6 The wilderness
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Efficiency and productivity, the next thing i'm going to bake, My garden, what babies dream about, fantastical "what if" situations, and planning my next big adventure
On a typical Friday night I am
So happy it's Friday! Time for family snuggles and catching up with my 9-5er friends! Quite often I'm flopped on the couch wiped out, but sometimes I'm cooking a dinner for some friends at home, out for a drink after baby is tucked in, or planning my Saturday and Sunday adventures.
You should message me if
You are in an open relationship or if you want to hang out or have a new adventure pal, or want to be a coffee snob with me,
Or if you feel like it. I like meeting new people, so don't be shy!
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