Spiccato
28 Sunnyvale, United States
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My self-summary
I'm a fun, zany, energetic, sometimes a little too crazy girl who's looking for a date. I'm poly, and really enjoying it. My husbandOpenguy1 and I have been happily with each other for over a decade (?!). We have been poly for the last 7 years or so, and it finally feels like we're really getting the hang of it. The more I explore the clearer I am in what I'm aiming for. I'm looking for new friends who understand nonmonogamy, or to date with a low key arrangement, possibly more if we really connect. I also prefer to see people who are already in a happy, healthy and functioning poly relationship.
I'm a new mom. Its intense and I think about it constantly. I'm navigating the transition back to working a few days a week so that's on my mind too.
What I’m doing with my life
Mostly keeping up with baby. Nurse, feed, nap, eat, sleep repeat. When I get a few extra minutes to myself I love to get creative in the kitchen, soak in the hot tub, garden or run. Work is a definite secondary focus, but I enjoy it. Im a dental assistant and I can get unreasonably excited about what I do. Dentistry is a wonderful mix of the technical and human requirements. I may not be performing dramatic life saving procedures, but it makes for good engaging work. Not too stressful, yet still meaningful.
I’m really good at
Trying new things. Every week I'm on the hunt for something new fun and out there. Wild food, circus tricks and whatever else strikes my fancy.
I'm also good at filling awkward gaps in conversations, and sometimes making them too :P
The first things people usually notice about me
My wild blond hair, and how much i talk.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
I never read this in other peoples profiles so I'm not going to respond. I think this is good stuff to chat about during a first date, so why give it away?
The six things I could never do without
#1 My Family
#2 Cold water
#3 Hot water
#4 jeans
#5 Coffee
#6 The wilderness
Why six? What an arbitrary number.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Efficiency and productivity, the next thing i'm going to bake, My garden, fantastical "what if" situations, and planning my next big adventure
On a typical Friday night I am
So happy it's Friday! Time for family snuggles and catching up with my 9-5er friends! Quite often I'm flopped on the couch wiped out, but sometimes I'm cooking a dinner for some friends at home, out for a drink, or planning my Saturday and Sunday adventures.
You should message me if
You are in an open relationship or if you want to hang out or have a new adventure pal, or want to be a coffee snob with me,
Or if you feel like it. I like meeting new people, so don't be shy!
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