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My self-summary
I am looking to meet the man who will someday become my rest-of-my-life-partner, otherwise I am doing great all by myself. It is a matter of wanting to be with the man who will enhance my life, not complicate it. Needing a man and wanting him at the same time.

Do you have a dream; what is your vision for your life? Does it match mine? Are we willing to do this together? I’m willing to share with the right man...to take you deeper than you may have ever been before...possibly even love you that much more...and then some.

This is my dream...what is your vision? I want to retire in the next few years and move to someplace much warmer than San Diego...Costa Rica, Panama, Mexico anyone? I want a simple lifestyle based on health and well-being. Good health to me involves taking care of my body…mind and spirit. I envision a solar-powered open-air simple house designed for all of our needs with an organic garden and fruit trees... fenced in and private...very private. Town is not too far away...and of course there are places where you can go dancing every night of the week...if you want to. In my dreams.........

How about a lifestyle of walks on the beach...relaxing in the sunshine...dancing at night and sleeping until we wake up... smoothies for breakfast and salads for lunch and dinner? Including reading great books and doing things to keep us occupied...traveling back to the States for visits with family as well as to new countries. Learning something new every day and sharing the experience of love, contentment, and the joy of being alive…growing younger (never old) together……hand-in-hand.

This sounds great…you say...but how will you know that you are the right man for me? If you have read...or choose to read “The Way of the Superior Man” and then “Dear Lover” both by David Deida, or anything by Gina Lake or Eckhart Tolle and they resonate with your Soul, then you will know the man I am looking for, or the man I am hoping will find me.

Please be tall (at least 6’, I like to wear heels when dancing and feel small) dark (please no pastey whiteys) and handsome (inside and out). Gotta ask for what you want and most of the time the Universe will provide it. Might I add...active, healthy, positive, caring, sensual, spiritual, kind, loving, wonderful, understanding, passionate, masculine...a man who is already happy with whom you have become, but is also open to learning new things, and becoming all that love has to offer. You also know your life’s purpose and that love and trust are the foundation for a healthy relationship. You communicate the feelings deep inside your heart...because you know I will accept you for the wonderful man I know you to be. You offer your compassion...your loving heart...as well as your hand when walking side by side.

Love me open with your Spirit and listen and watch for the invitation to enter even deeper into my Soul...for that is where the beauty and the love can be found and experienced to its greatest heights and depths...where I offer my surrender to you. Will you gaze into my eyes, share your smiles, hugs, and kisses in anticipation of the invitation?

I am ready and willing to do this dance called "Love" and we can learn the steps together. Sometimes our rhythm may be off, we may stumble and step on each other's toes...but the love in our hearts will lead the way as we dance through life together. I want to love and be loved for the rest of my life. I happen to believe that's not too much to ask. And because I'm asking...you can be sure I am more than willing to give love first. I just want to enjoy life with a wonderful man who wants to share his life with me. I will give you all of who I am... and will want the same in return.

How about it? Are you up to it? Please be honest and confident enough about yourself to post a current photo, and please be honest about your age as well. I am and I have. :-)

What I’m doing with my life
I am always a work in progress. I strive every day to maintain a positive attitude and keep myself moving forward in life....instead of dwelling on the past. I am living my life with love in my heart and loving my Self.
I’m really good at
dancing....or so I've been told.

I am good at listening to you when you need me to pay attention.....I give really nice warm hugs.........I like to laugh and have fun and enjoy myself.....whether with you....or by myself.
The first things people usually notice about me
are my smile......my eyes.....the ones up here. :-) People also notice that I am a happy person....and I like to share who I am with people.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
I usually read self-help books, because there is always room for improvement and I like to learn new things about myself.

I like dramas......."The Help" had me both laughing and crying....almost at the same time. I also like comedies, science fiction, romance, and action movies.

I mostly like to listen to smooth jazz.....as well as R&B, Ole' Skool, Top 40, Blues, Soft Rock and some Hip Hop.

I always try to eat as healthy as I possibly can. That means that most of my food is organic and I do not eat junk food. I eat a lot of salad and chicken, or chicken and salad.

I do not watch much TV....I don't even own a TV.....but a good movie is always welcome.
The six things I could never do without
Love is a very important part of my life.....whether it be the love of my family.....the love of God.....or the love of a good man......which somehow seems to escape me at the moment.

A positive attitude helps to keep everything in my life in perspective.

My health is very important to me and I would not want to live without good health.....and that includes physical exercise from dancing......to skating....to walking......and of course.....making love.

My children and my grandchildren are very special and important to me. Yes.....I am a grandma....and proud of it.

My faith in a Greater Power in the Universe.

Good food......clean air and water....... warmth....... peace..... happiness......... sunshine. Oops! That's more than six things.......................
I spend a lot of time thinking about
being a better person and learning from the mistakes I have made. Wondering how we can fill the world with peace and love.....knowing that it all starts within. I am grateful for the life I have and always strive to make it better.

There is a lot of stuff that is happening in this world today.....and what makes people so different ........and why are people the way they are.....and how can we all treat everyone with love and respect.....and what do I want to do if I ever get to retire......and everything else that crosses my mind.
On a typical Friday night I am
out dancing....or maybe at home with a good movie.....or maybe even a good book.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I do not make booty calls and neither do I answer them. So many men expect me to give it up on the first or second date.....so I thought I would be up front from the beginning and let you know that it doesn't work with me. I am looking for a man who wants to love me.....not f**k me. Is that so much to ask for? Ooops! Looks like I just lost most of you....that is if you happen to have even read this far.

Show me who you are as a man.....show me who you are deep inside and I will show you my self as well. That's where friendship comes in. Then I will decide if I want to invite you in any further. If you agree with this from your heart, then great! If not, then I don't want to waste your time. Next!

Anything else private that you want to know will have to wait for the right time to ask me.
You should message me if
you are looking for a best friend to eventually fall in love with....or if you want to get to know me better....or you feel so inspired.....age appropriate as well....as I am not a cougar. Yes, I will date a younger man....but not young enough to be my son.

Message me if you are willing to wait until the time when I am ready to make the first move. Promise I'll be worth the wait...as I am hoping you will be too.


Unlike a man, woman aren’t turned off & on like a switch. A woman’s desire builds over time and is connected to trust. Women actually possess the ability for infinite sexual desire – for the right man.

The key to opening a woman’s unbridled and uninhibited sexuality comes from a man’s desire to truly ‘know’ her, not simply to penetrate her.

The man who can turn a woman on at will has taken his time to know her and approaches his woman with delicious desire and the confidence of already knowing she wants.

Most men make meager requests or insistent demands out of needs for their own sexual gratification and have yet to open a woman this way.

When a man chooses to ‘know’ a woman rather than simply penetrate her, his capacity to sensually connect evolves beyond ‘one and then done’. In fact, ‘multiples’ are not a phenomena exclusive to women.

Seek to know her. Once she completely trusts you she’ll want to be utterly consumed by you. This energy generates a spiritual Viagra and an unlimited ability for you to remain connected and fulfill her as well.

A woman’s desire becomes infinite once a man never stops seeking to know the depths of her soul. A man’s performance becomes limitless once she’s been opened so completely."

Graham R White