I've only recently started to really focus in on what I want in a partner:
- Open communication and brutal honesty (I promise to give the same.)
- Vanilla scented kink
- An understanding that sex, relationships, and their norms are sometimes hilarious
Also, I used to think I was funny before I tried to write about myself on a dating website and I promise that I don't start as many sentences with the word "I" in real life.
Sportsballing (kind of a nontraditional jock & workout junkie)
Debating (this can probably fall into the above category based on how I play it)
Cooking, Crosswording, Reading
Often my work (for a disability rights nonprofit) is also my hobby. If that sounds miserable to you, we probably won't get along.
Movies: Auberge Espagnole, High Fidelity, Raising Arizona, Eulogy, Elling, Indiana Jones, 500 Days of Summer, all underdog sports movies, anything by Wes Anderson or Christopher Guest, anything featuring Edward Norton
Shows: West Wing, Luther, Jeopardy, Gilmore Girls, Top Chef, Parks and Rec, 30 Rock, Game of Thrones, Orphan Black
Music: Dire Straits, The Strokes, Peter Frampton, Ryan Adams, Phantogram, The Mountain Goats, Simon and Garfunkel, Old 97s, Stevie Ray Vaughn, Shakey Graves, alt-J, Eric Clapton, The Decemberists, Belle and Sebastian, Van Morrison, Jack White, Run the Jewels, FKA Twigs, Buddy Guy
Food: I'll try any food once, but closest to my heart are anything Asian and anything with melted cheese.
Inequality of opportunity
What kinds of adventures my kitty gets into while I'm away. She can't possibly be sleeping that whole time.