42 San Carlos, United States
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My self-summary
Caring, quirky, stylish, dynamic ISFP girl seeks partner for adventure, exercise, deep talks, funny banter, and silent nights watching a fire or listening to the crickets....
What I’m doing with my life
My life is pretty busy, but I'm learning to balance it better. Having down time, strolling around without anything pressing is what I aim for.

I do have my commitments which I also try to enjoy (and largely do!). I try to have as much fun as possible in any situation :) I cherish and protect my free time and envision spending it with my significant other. It would be wonderful to fulfill our individual commitments together, becoming a part of each other's lives, and also have time for ourselves.
I’m really good at
- Cooking and grilling
- Simplifying my possessions
- Acting according to conscience
- Returning text and emails
- being lazy
- being productive
- making it up as I go!

The above feels like an opportunity for gratuitous bragging so I included....

Terrible at:
- listening to voicemails
- swimming (but won't drown)
- walking in stillettos (but necessary on rare occasion!)
- shopping at the mall or outlets (kill me now)
- planning in advance and being thoroughly prepared!
The first things people usually notice about me
Maybe that I'm pretty open, energetic, confident, and casual....
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
I read Fiction -- just finished "Love May Fail" by Matthew Quick and loved it. Other favorite fiction are Bel Canto and No Way To Treat A First Lady. I also read Time magazine and fashion mags, People :)

As for sports, I love the Warriors and can get into soccer and tennis matches, but generally not a sports enthusiast. I'd rather be outside peacefully enjoying the sushine or rain, too.

Love music: Eclectic mix of hip hop, 90s grunge, 80s pop, Top 40s... All the classics from each genre and decade.

70's - Gap band, Lionel Richie

80's - Hall n Oates, New Order, Whitney Houston, Madonna, Prince

90's - Smashing Pumpkins, Pixies, R&B, Maxwell, Mariah

Now - Alabama Shakes, Justin Beiber, EDM, Top 40, Rihanna

Movies - Romance and comedies are like chicken soup on a cold night :) I like to watch movies at home (ideally) at night and save the day for enjoying the fresh air, exploring and exercising.

I like all kinds of food, healthy/greasy, ethnic, and fine dining. BBQ, fried anything, and pie are always welcome :)
The six things I could never do without
Dogs, jeans, boots, coffee, sunroof, radio.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
- Challenges of discipline and guidance (parenting)
- Self growth - working on expressing my needs and values over pleasing others.
- how to get it all done as fast as
possible, so I can read in bed with my book to the sun/ nap with my dog/ play tennis with my kid/ hang out with my person :)
- Those happy, long term relationships that just last and last --- how do they do it??!!??
On a typical Friday night I am
When I have a free night, I would love to get coffee/eat dinner out and walk around in the night air and enjoy each other's company.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
My dream is to have a little house, with a close knit nuclear family, a yard, and a dog, including a partner that is my best friend. A vision of my future includes a wide porch, warm night, cold beers, a blanket, softly talking as we slowly get sleepy....
You should message me if
You are also adventurous, optimistic, expressive, and love dogs and kids.